How would you feel when you come to know that the girl you loved is going to marry your boss??
By kkarun
@kkarun (100)
India
July 18, 2011 4:39am CST
hai friends, its a very sad day for me as i just came to know that the girl i loved was was going to marry my boss. I knew her since the college days we where both in the same class, it was kind of love at first sight but being with her talking to her seeing her politeness i feel more in love with her. She was my true love and i loved her so much but i was not so economically stable so never proposed her. Now i'm working in a company and there i came to know from my friends that my boss was going to marry her. I was totally collapsed hearing this i even though of doing something evil but then thought of her happiness. I feel very sad but happy for her. Do you have any such experience share it? how would you feel under such situation?
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7 responses
@researcher231951 (17)
• Barbados
19 Jul 11
First i would like to say that i am sorry about your situation and i have one piece of advice for persons seeking life partners.It would be good if you can take some time and get to know the other person first.It is a terrible feeling when you are hurt by your partner.My advice is to take friendships slowly.I hope you will find a faithful partner soon,that would help to heal the pain.
@researcher231951 (17)
• Barbados
20 Jul 11
You are so right,i can only agree with you.However,i hope that for him it becomes a life lesson.
@ANNIHILATION (30)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
Yeah. A true relationship takes time. There's no such thing as love as first site. Maybe it's just either lust or infatuation I'm sure that's not yet love. But as he said he got to know her better so maybe what he did wrong was he didn't propose and other people saw that she was single so they took the advantage. And now it's too late for him.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 Jul 11
I bet that's the saddest thing that I'd every think about. Just imagine someone you care for marrying someone other than you, it's really sad. However, we can't do anything about it.
I could remember the story of my uncle. When he was younger, his girlfriend married the boss and it really made him furious. But several years after, he realize that though he was hurt by that girl, the girl got a dose of her own medicine because the boss (who married her) cheated on her with the secretary.
But still, I know it must have been sad, but just believe that perhaps that just shows that she's not for you and there's someone else who is more amazing and right for you.
Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 Jul 11
Hi arun,
You have never communicated your love to that girl then how she knows about your love. I think she is innocent here. Once you could talk to her and expressed your wish, inform about your financial backgrounds, etc. then you could understand her reactions at least. Now you are the culprit here, by not informing the girl and simply kept quiet. If you don’t have courage to express your love then what is the need of worrying about her loss. I am sorry to know about situation, but you have to accept it.
I appreciate your care on her, which is very sincere, that is why you are concerned about her happiness. She may not be lucky to have such a kind and considerate human being like you.
I appreciate your care on her, which is very sincere, that is why you are concerned about her happiness. She may not be lucky to have such a kind and considerate human being like you.
@kkarun (100)
• India
18 Jul 11
hai sreekala, you are right its a mistake which was on my side and what has happened has happened but i just got so confused and sad i could not think of anything. I don't want her to be hurt in any means so will always try to keep the distance but the truth is i will never forget her.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
18 Jul 11
Well dear friend.
I can understand your pain that you feel before an event like that.
However as you yourself said "I'm happy for her!" and therefore this should encourage you to look ahead.
Perhaps fate has decided that that person should not be the love of your life and I am sure that sooner or later you'll find it.
With my best wishes!
@aCavin (25)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
sad for you my friend... haven't really known this kind of situation , usually encounter this one on movies... we'll i'm not in the position to say or anything but, if can just share my insight.. maybe its sad cause you really love her but she didn't love you back but look at the bright side maybe you deserve someone better...
@ANNIHILATION (30)
• Philippines
18 Jul 11
For me, I think i'd go on a killing spree or maybe adapt the ways of jigsaw. Of course I'd be pissed. Who wouldn't be. Maybe the reason why the girl you love is going to marry your boss is because you didn't take the chance when you had it. So many reasons. And by the way, You should have proposed to her. Even if you're not economically stable YET, but someday you will be, maybe you proposing to her would make you strive to earn more. Maybe both of your lives would be better. Maybe she won't just stand there and watch you suffer economically. Maybe she WAS JUST WAITING FOR YOU all along. Lots of possibilities could happen. Life's a gamble you won't win unless you bet all your chips. =)
@rahulx1 (295)
• India
18 Jul 11
if that girl didn't know you love her than i dnt think girl have any fault and also your a employ and his a boss who give's u monthly salary so she will be live better with him.
and if she know that you love her and still she's going to marry him than may be she selfish so you dnt worry for her.never mind your boss is better choice for her because he can give him many facility she will be happy with him because she got her choice man
