if you were me

I think that some people think the gifts makes up for time spent with their loved ones. I would talk to him about it. He should make some quality time for you. I am sure he can do both if he sets his mind to it. I would ask yourself that question. Is it worth all the gifts? Talk to him.

Maybe he truly does love you but just too busy to give enough time to spend with you. Some men are like that. But for me if the man truly loves me he should know how to balance between work and love life. The fancy things just cannot cover up all the emptiness in our hearts that has to be nurtured by affection and essence of him being there. It happened to me before that I eventually lost my feelings for the person. If if the man loves me, he should also consider lavishing our love together so it grows stronger rather than flounder.

I have read a book.. It's about relationships. What I remembered in that book is that it pointed out that when you want a successful relationship, both of you must know each others languages. It was said there that if the other is materialistic, meaning to say, he/she does feel loved when his/her partner give him/her valuables. Others will feel loved if their partners often say I love you to them. Some are showy, they display their affections in public. According to the author, you must jive with your partner. You must know what his/her language is because most problems arise when the other don't know how his/her better half feels loved the most. Like for instance, in your case, your boyfriend thinks that you will feel loved by giving you material things when all you want is his time. I think, the best thing to save your relationship is to talk to him about your concerns. Talk to him about what you like and doesn't like. Tell him how you feel loved the most. I believe everything will be changed if you do so. :) I hope you could make your relationship better. :)

You need to let your bf know how you feel about him working all the time and that you want to spend free time with him and that its not enough just buying you the fancy things and gifts. It's the emotional connection and feelings that you have for each other that will make the relationship work out not the gifts. You shouldn't have to make time for each other it should just happen. Good luck

i understand you and I definitely know how you feel. My boyfriend is a student taking up a medicine course which makes him REALLY BUSY. His classes are from morning to night, after classes he'll have to study and do a lot of homework and projects. Sometimes I become so angry at him because he doesn't have time for me and like you too, I want to have some night with him watching movies eating popcorn in PJs. But I realized I have to understand him, he's always tired and I should be the one comforting and relieving his stress instead of being a brat about it. Maybe time will pass and your boyfriend will have more free time with you. Just understand him for a while.

when i moved in with my boyfriend in march i was so angry for the 2nd month i was here he didnt give me as much attention as he used to. i came to realize after many arguments that he was just living life and as long as he was coming home to bed with me it didnt matter. just make sure you get at least one day out of the month where it's just the too of you no cell phones no work go out or stay in and watch crappy movies all night wich will gaureented to lead to a greater night if you catch my drift;)

if it happened to me I would ask for a heart to heart talk to tell him I need him, not fancy stuffs and that I need him to share whatever it is troubling him I think from this conversation you can tell whether he is lying or not meanwhile I would keep busy maybe look for a job for myself or learn new things that can earn side income

Hi! Well, life is really hard nowadays. It's hard to provide the needs of the people we love if we don't have money. But of course, we need not only material things but also emotional support and time. I suggest you talk to him about this matter in a calm and loving way. Set a day with him when he can spend that day for you or even just a time if he is too busy. Happy mylotting!

It sounds like his current job is too stressful and is really overworking him. Maybe he could look for other work or you could try and find ways to support him so he can work fewer hours. It could also be time to take a vacation. Maybe you could do some house work he normally does in exchange for time together when he is home or make a date ahead of time so he can plan around it for his work. It sounds like he is trying but needs help to get everything done.

Get yourself very romantic wears and move around regularly in his presence, because man always moved by what they see, so he will soon be your dance to your tune