sorrry to say this but I am divorcing my husband

Oh, I didn't know, I read about what your sister-in-law was doing, but didn't know your husband was taking her side.. This is crap, what is it with guys who prefer to kiss everyone's butt??? Sorry, this may have been uncalled for, but this is exactly what my husband does, he goes to every freaking person, from his pastor to his little brother and believes every stinking word that comes out of their mouths, and yet what I say is nothing more than something the flush down the toilet.. Just because they have a college education and I don't..I think this is a reason my husband hates me taking college classes now..Oh, he'll deny it, but then I will hear him say how he wants to go back to school..He only wants to go back because I am getting smarter than he is and I won't back down.... I am sorry you are going through this free_man, I can relate, except good for you for getting out. If a man can't respect and stand with their woman, then she doesn't have to do the same....

Hi Janey. He took his lying sister in laws side on a lie she spread about me. If a man won't stand up for his wife over a lying sister in law then he don't need me in his life. Thanks my friend!

I have a similar problem with my in-laws but refuse to be intimidated by them. It is infuriating when my MIL accuses me of ignoring her (and tells John this behind my back..then he relays it to me instead of sticking up for me..and why doesn't she mention it to ME if she has a problem) and I have to bite my tongue in her presence because if I ranted, I'd RANT and probably leave! I hate it when she twists things round to suit herself. Well out of order if you ask me. Fortunately, they're not round that often and I have the option of not going round to theirs, sending John round on his own. This can backfire on me though 'cos I bet yer bottom dollar that they bang on about me not having a job whenever he's round. Wouldn't dare say anything to my face though. I think they're scared of me lol. I'd tell them to mind their own business but he never does as he doesn't like confrontation. It's alright for his parents to confront him though, isn't it? I hope all this gets resolved freeman, one way or another. My heart goes out to you..and to you carmelanirel.

Hi Carmelanirel. Got a plan will let God be my guide. He won't fight back don't own anything together. This house is in his name only. Don't want anything he has. Am a good carpenter and will seek employment to get my own home and will not have to deal with all the drama or bull in my life. This will be the last man ever in my life. Have prayed about it and believe God has shown me what to do. Will trust in God and have faith that God has HIS own plans for my life. Thanks for your concern my friend. Don't know when I will have internet again but won't be too long.

That;s good, I hate to see you leave mylot due to this..I don't have skills, so until I can get a job, I have to put up with his bull.. I'll be thinking about you, since I no longer pray, find it to be too close to what my husband wants if I did that...

Hi Hardworkinggurl. Thanks but have prayed about it and can't see any other way. If he can't stand up for me over his brothers wife then I don't need or want the drama or the bull stuff in my life. Life is too short not to be happy!

Hi Don and welcome to my lot thank you for your prayers my friend!