Do you also receive fake mails?

@dpk262006 (58678)
Delhi, India
July 19, 2011 1:17am CST
Hi all! I sometimes receive fake mails from the known senders, when actually they do not send such mails to me. To elaborate my point further – suppose ‘X’ and ‘Y’ are my friends and have my email ID. I would receive a mail supposedly sent by ‘X’ or ‘Y’, which will bear ‘no subject’ and the mail, would contain a link to another web page (mostly advertisement for some product/service). When I check from my friend ‘X’ or ‘Y’, whether he sent such a mail, he denies it. I am wondering how come hackers use his and mine email IDs to send fake mails/spam? Such mails are mostly have ‘yahoo’ or ‘hot mail’ IDs. Do you also receive such mails and what are the affective methods to prevent such mails from the known email IDs. Your suggestions and views are welcomed.
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@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
1 Aug 11
everyday i received unknown email.. I dont know where did they get my email id. So embarassing to me.
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• Philippines
30 Jul 11
This usually happens if your friend's e-mail and computer is affected by a malware infection. There are several ways that your friend can fix this, first up, change the Password and the Secret Questions and Secret Answer to his account, second, scan the computer while disconnected from the Internet - tell your friend to turn off the modem before scanning, restart the computer and scan again. My account was having this issue as well and upon scanning, I found out that I was infected with 2 types of malware. Also, the infection is not isolated on 1 computer, it would be best to scan all the computers where he accessed his e-mail. Hopefully, your friend did not access his mail on a public computer or he would have to create a bogus contact list with bogus e-mails for the Resolution.
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• Canada
14 Aug 11
I've been getting those all the time. My friends and family keep getting their addresses hacked. No one's ever reported getting one from me. My pass word is very hard to figure out since it's in a different language (won't say which one) and is very hard for an English-speaker (English as mother tongue) to comprehend. LOL
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
16 Aug 11
I am wondering how could you get a pass word in foreign language? Please elaborate.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
I haven't received one. But sometimes I don't receive my friend's email,and they're asking why. I also wonder why...yes,few times it happens that i don't received email sent by my friends
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
21 Jul 11
I would like that if I happen to send you a mail, you must receive it and respond to it.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi Jai! It means you are facing the opposite problem . You may open a new mail ID and can send it your those friends, whose mails you do not receive sometimes.
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
never mind...as long as i can received yours
• United States
19 Jul 11
Hi dpk Yes I get a great deal of "fake" emails all the time. They are easy to recognize as being fake as usually it is some odd link attached to them. I can tell you something I learned during marketing strategies. There are programs that help marketers send out massive emails and how they do it is send out loads of them attaching to common names. For instant, they will send randomly, and only an example something like (common name)@yahoo.com or (common name)@ hotmail. They do this with all email service providers and what the email service provider does it continually send the email until it takes. This is why sometimes we can send an email and it will take a couple hours and or days before we know if the email did not go through. Because the systems keep trying until it matches the close ones. Though I have not used the program I do have it and learned that is why so many get so many spam and junk pharmaceutical mails. They are tricky ones and that is how they obtain email addresses. They do get alerted when something does not go through so they are able to cross it off their list. If something goes through they keep it on a distribution list where they continually spam people daily posing as sever different companies.
@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
20 Jul 11
That's a good explanation, HWG. There are many ways in which spammers get valid email addresses and the one you describe is one of the older ones. I notice that many email providers have got wise to this method and that such emails stuffed with clearly invented addresses are less common than they used to be. Lists of genuine and verified email addresses are at a premium amongst spammers and there is a thriving market in CDs of hundreds of thousands of email addresses. It is only a matter of time before anyone's email address appears on such CDs and does the rounds of the spammers. These lists are compiled by professional email harvesters and one way in which your address may be included is through one of those 'round robin' emails ("Please send this on to all/at least 15 friends/let everyone know about this/..."). Most of us know that they are quite stupid and pointless but there are enough people who think that it does no harm to spread it around just in case they get lucky or because the information seems important. If you ever RECEIVE one of these mails from a friend, the damage is already done because your email address (along with hundreds of others) will appear in every copy of that mail forwarded from then on! Eventually, these mails end up in the inbox of someone who is a 'harvester' (they masquerade as friendly people in chat rooms who claim to love these jokes, threats, 'lucky charm' and [hoax] information mails and encourage people to forward them to them). Most of these mails have been forwarded many times and may contain hundreds of valid email addresses. A clever person can even work out who is a friend of whom because the 'chain' of people who forwarded it and to whom is easy to see! It is clearly to a spammer's advantage to make it look as though a mail comes from a friend of yours because you are much more likely to open it. This is incredibly easy to do by filling in the one of the fields (before the mail is sent) with a genuine email address from their list. Actually, anyone can do this and it is useful to those people who send mails from one address but want any replies to go to another address - the facility is available in most email clients but not in a way which would be practical for a spammer to use: as HWG has pointed out, they use specially designed software to compose and send their mails.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi HWG! You have explained the issue very well, which no other respondent did so far. I did not know that they are such computer programmes which automatically send mails using common name and then store the data in their record. I better delete the emails IDs of friends whose IDs are misused for sending links/spam mails. Many thanks for enlightening us and dropping in.
• United States
20 Jul 11
Owlwings, thank you so much for the detailed explanation. Wow obtaining email addresses as you kindly explained shows that many will devote their time as a full time job. Wow how sad, though as several do fall for the fake emails and this is really their intentions when sending them out.
• United States
20 Jul 11
I think you are speaking of spam mail being sent to you via people in your address book...basically what has happened is whoever's email address is sending these mails out has been infected with a automailer virus or malware. Sometimes the virus is in the server, sometimes in the ISP and sometimes in someone's computer. I usually notify my address book listings of all such mails and allow them to take care of correcting the situation via their own ISP etc...this has been very effective. Some of these mailings can attach YOUR address book and begin mailing from it. As usual, the internet is filled with those who wish to use others...
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
Will you please elaborate your point, mentioned at para 2 of your response. I agree that it could be any reason but I face this problem.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
19 Jul 11
I get those types of emails all of the time. I report them as spam or send and block. That seems to help. Sometimes I open them and ask to be removed from their mailing list too.
• India
19 Jul 11
Which mail service do you use and how do you block ?
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
19 Jul 11
Hi Step! I also want to know how do you block such mails? Do you receive such mails where email ID of your friend is used?
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Jul 11
Hi deepak, I have received such a mail earlier, while opening the mail I have seen that some links are attached and I quickly understand, the concerned person has not sent that particular mail because I knew that person who does not have any such habit so I deleted it immediately without opening the link. I do receive such mails in my official mail too, but it seems more interesting, some known people (I mean the mail id is familiar to us), who introduced himself, describing that the particular person is in abroad and where he lost all the belongings. He needs money to come back and assuring that, upon return he will pay the money and if we are ready to pay the money then he can send the information on bank. I got one mail from a governor who wrote articles for us, I worried on the person but didn’t inform about this to my boss. Two months ago, I got another mail, where I received the mail from my boss’s personal mail id, in that he wrote that I take a quick trip to some place (in abroad) and where he lost all belongings including credit card, mobile phone, etc so he asked to send money….. I got the hint very quickly as his mail hacked as I spoke to him on the other day and I am sure that he is very much in India. Another thing I know his writing style of letters as I am preparing the letters always when he is around. I contacted him to inform that his mail is hacked, then he told me he is tired up by phone calls, means everybody received mail from his account and worried and inquiring the details. Preventing the same, protect your account with strong password; change the password often, these steps we can follow as a precaution. Don't open the link if you are not sure about it. However, the hackers are always smart.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi Sree! The incidents which you have narrated appear very scary and could cause lots of tension, if one does not reach the truth. Using someone's boss's email could make the mail look like a genuine one and if one is unable to contact the boss, it can cause trouble. I have taken note of your suggestions regarding changing the password. I do not open the link, even if by chance I happen to open the email. I have deleted the emails IDs of my friens, whose IDs are misued for sending mails. Many thanks for dropping in.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Feb 13
Thank you for the BR though it is much awaited and non informing. I seen my BR through profile visit.
@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Jul 11
Yes, I don't know who is doing those. I used to get quite afew in my junk mail bin. They all go to my junk mail though. I love Yahoo because they only put people in your contacts in your regular mail. Saves me alot of time. I scan through the junk just incase but usually just delete it all. I would move to Yahoo. Put people you want to hear from in your contacts and leave the others out.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi cel! If the mails go directly to junk mail bin, then it is OK, however, if they come in one's inbox, then it gets irritating. It is good to hear that you enjoy using yahoo mail. Hope they will be happy to read your response.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jul 11
Yes, occasionally one slips by.
@vandana7 (100617)
• India
19 Jul 11
I receive them, and I am here to check if anybody has a good solution. :)
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi Vandana! Please see our friend Hardworkinggril's response how we receive such mails. Thanks for dropping in.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Also see response at S.No.31
@much2say (56053)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Jul 11
Oh yes, I do get such emails! These types mainly fall into my junk/spam box, but still I do take note of it. I will NEVER open any links in those emails though . . . you just know that only means trouble - meaning viruses! If it looks suspicious, I definitely delete it so as not mistakenly open it again. I personally don't do much to prevent them . . . I don't know if we can . . . but we do make sure we had at least have updated virus protection. Oh, and I do let the person know that I got some weird email from them - just so they know their system may have gotten hacked!
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
Hi m2s! It is good that such unwanted mails land in your junk box instead going to your inbox. You are wise that you do not open the links mentioned in such mails. Thanks for dropping in.
@allknowing (137781)
• India
19 Jul 11
I just dealt with one yesterday. It looked so innocent as it came from a nun friend. I immediately accepted it and within minutes there were those this site had sent emails to in my name! Grrrrrrrrr I wrote to these friends to ignore those mails and I also wrote a stinker to this site saying that it was unethical and illegal to open other people's address books and sneak around.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi all! It means you also became victim of fake mails and it caused you problems. You see communicating with such sites may be counter-productive, as they come to know that which active email ID you have been using and they may 'misuse' your ID or pass on the details to some other site.
@allknowing (137781)
• India
20 Jul 11
I received a mail from this site saying they have deleted my account which incidentally I did not ask for. But just as well, as I would not want anything to do with sites that do not believe in ethics.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
Yes, I do received such emails too.Most of them are giving links or they are promoting something.Since you've said it's supposed to be from your friend so you will be tempted to open it so if they provide a link and your sure it's not from them, then the best you can do is check it as spam and delete.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
It means we are on the same boat. I agree that fake mails be marked as spam to avoid any future trouble. Thanks for joining us.
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
Yeah, your right.This fake mails is really annoying and gives us confusion sometimes.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
1 Sep 11
Hello smile baby I also received lots of fake mail but I delete immediately because no time for reading it. I never read the mail without subject.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
2 Sep 11
Hi fanta! It is wise on your part that you do not read dubious mails. Sometimes fake mails could be troublesome.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
20 Jul 11
I've never received such mails from the same ID as my friends...unless they have inadvertently opened a similar mail and it's a virus. The usual ones I get are from people I don't know and so I don't open them at all and delete them.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi SV! You appear very lucky that you have not been become victim of such phishing mails. Thanks for dropping in.
• United States
19 Jul 11
If any email doesn't seem right , Don't open it. It may be a virus. If X is my friend and I saw an email from him/her that didn't sem right. I would write them and ask if they sent the mail. And if they say What mail? then I would delete it.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
You see one get tempted to open a mail from known email ID. After some experience, I have become cautious.
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
22 Jul 11
I receive many such mails. For example I receive from my son's email id or husband's email id, calling me for dating. That itself shows it is fake. Many mails from known persons say they sent photoes link. They request me to become a member in some site. Even today I deleted such mail. Once it came from my sister's email id saying that she enclosed a link for her personal photoes. I met her that day and asked what photoes she sent. She said she did not send any such mail. I forwarded that mail to her and she said it is not her mail. So I delete such mails. I do not know how to stop them. Have a good day friend.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
HI BB! OH My God! You were also the victim of this problem and you received the mail from your hubby's ID? It was good that you got to check the suspicious mail with your sister, else you would have kept wondering which pictures or site she was talking about. Thanks for dropping in. dpk How is your health now?
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 11
I do get such kind of mails in my email. They are purportedly from a friend but this friend has no idea how her email addy become public and being misused by unscrupulous people to spam others. I just delete them when I see them as I know my friend is not one who send rubbish online.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
20 Jul 11
Hi Zandi! So we all face this problem. Please see our friend Hardworkinggril's response how we receive such mails. Thanks for dropping in.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
In one of my e-mail addresses I've been receiving a lot of such kind of mails and it is really so annoying. This is the reason why I had to create another e-mail address and have been really careful in giving this address out so avoid spammers and fake mails like that.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
OH I see, you also faced this kind of problem, which made you feel irritated. I have learnt a few lessons from this discussions and am going to apply them. Thanks for dropping in.
• United States
20 Jul 11
I have found out that this is becasue somebody has broken into their mailing list and is using this to send out the mail from. There is a lot of mass mailing lists that seems to use other people email address to send out mail from. If yuo do not see a subject line or it looks like a spam subject line delete this and do not open it up.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
Mass mailing list could be a problem.