how to impress your boy/girlfriend's parents in a dinner

@cathloe (184)
Philippines
July 19, 2011 4:43am CST
don't be freaked out. relax because here are some of my tips that can help you when you are invited to a dinner in your boy/girlfriend's parents' home: (hope it'll help y'all) ..bring a small gift or a bottle of wine. this indicates that you appreciate their invitation and want to give something back. ..if dinner is still in the works when you arrive, offer to help. asking what you can do shows that you care. they may tell you to relax or they may give you a job to do. if given a job, do it with a smile =) ..offer to set the table. ..at dinner, remember the basic manners you learned as a kid: wait until everyone has food and is seated to begin eating, don;t talk with your mouth full, keep your elbows off the table and put your napkin on your lap. ..when someone asks you to pass them something (e.g. salt), it is rude to use it before giving it to them. ..you can eat some things with your fingers (pizza, bread, tacos, asparagus if it is without sauce or dressing, corn on the cob, cookies, fruit, less formal food like burgers, and fries, etc) but for greasy food of fancy food, use your utensils. ..help clear the table when everyone is finished. this extra effort will earn you major bonus points! so what do you think? these are just some of the ways..hope it'll help you =)
2 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
20 Jul 11
just be yourself don`t act like not be yourself if you only do for get her or her impression
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 11
emerald, i say like that, it does not mean you did not adjust...but sometimes we can not be ourself because we want to adjust in new circumtances
@cathloe (184)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
thanks for agreeing with me emerald20. i love you for that =) you have to adjust too, older people are hard to get in sometimes. you might not know they'd be pointing a knife right in front of you hehe =)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
well I think cathloe is right. you have to adjust when dealing with parents of you girlfriend or other older people. adjusting doesn't mean you are pretending or not being yourself.. impress them in such a way that you know your limitations in making gestures and action, you have to watch you word. one more thing is, they most probably have their own culture and beliefs too
@darkdeivu (257)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
you should be your self and don't pretend and act like you know everything.. . In short don't be pathetic!
@cathloe (184)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
yeah like you. you're pathetic!. you suck men =)
@cathloe (184)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
im just suggesting things that can be done when you're out with old people. it doesn't mean that you are not being yourself,, of course you should show some respect and kindness, i guess you don't even have that. sorry for you. you don't know things like these which make you dumb and stupid. next time you comment on something, be sure to know what you're going to say. use your head first ok? have a nice day =)