Just confused what should i end up with ????
By ashvini_urs
@ashvini_urs (415)
India
July 19, 2011 5:05am CST
Am a pharma postgraduate recently passed out and now working in one of the world's leading opthalmic products manufacturer.
Before this during my study days, to help out my mom i was doing some online jobs like forums, ptc's ptp's later from all these took another step into freelancers, HYIPS and much forward i learned Trading currencies. The potential of making money in FOREX is huge that everyone is aware of. So, now i admit that am addicted to internet, currency trading on a day am able to make anywhere between $50-$100 and this money is more than sufficient to run a peaceful life here in India.
But now the problem is that my husband doesnt wants me to work online. He needs me to do a day job. According to him anybody can make money but he says we gain status when we are in some reputed position.
Am in dilemma, i really have a craving for online earnings because i know i can perform well its all these 3 years of experience i have gathered which is turning fruitful for me now. I have joined the day job as i cant ignore my husbands words but am more frustrated as to i cant trade. I cant give much time to my trading. :-(
So i would appreciate if anybody shares their view regarding this issue. Please suggest me as to what best i can do to my current situation.
Should i continue the day job ???
Working online fascinates me more, am much interested in this (But am well qualified just to sit at home)
Managing both day job and trading is what am doing currently that is possible but there is no freedom of time if you are working in a corporate office ? This is what i really dont like. Need to wake up early and working hours are rigid.
Please share your views and how satisfied can i be by solving this issue!!!
3 responses
@lazybug (273)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
In our present situation working hard is not enough, you should work smart. Reality is that money is the key to what this world offers and also the key to living life to its fullest. With this you should stick to the job/opportunity where you work less but earn more and you are comfortable with it. The world today mainly revolves around technology and lots of people right now are earning millions because of the use of internet. Talk to your husband about it. Present the reality that you don't have to spend 12 hours(with preparation and travel time) on a job that pays you for 8 hours and the facts that you earn legitimately via online trading, explain to him how it works and how does the outcome affects you as a person and how it affects your family. Make sure he listens, accept, acknowledge and understand your point of view. And stand by your decision of what you trully want to do without compromising your relationship.
@ashvini_urs (415)
• India
20 Jul 11
thanks for sharing your views @umabharathi and @lazybug
That is what even am focussed on need to stand by my thoughts for working online.
One more thing you didnt notice was that am a professional well qualified and he feels if i work online my education will become a waste as i have spent so many years and ultimately postgraduated in the pharma field. so, this is what is his concern and mine too.
i really accept lazybug travelling for the job is a hectic and its really frustrating may be this is the one reason because of which am disliking to work outside.
Anyways thanks guys i will think about this and ultimately come to a right conclusion which is beneficial for me.
@amarhits8 (263)
• India
18 Oct 11
hi u better convince him
and tell him the advantage of online earning simply sitting at home u r getting money tell him clearly so that he can understand
and i think ur problem has been solved
tell me
@umabharti (3972)
• India
19 Jul 11
hi, if ur not interested in what your husband is suggesting u then just tell him that you are doing good from online and Forex .
Be straight and do explain him.If he thinks that should be in reputed job or something which gives name then let him do ,there is no rule that a wife and husband both have to have the same opinions and do the same jobs .
Your already doing good work online ,may be he is thinking that your doing good from his heart and just for telling he says so.
You try to solve it peacefully.Because u are in that situation not anyone else ,you know the advantages as well as u have interest in the online works.
