Facebook - a problem for young lovebirds

@bmthepro (118)
India
July 19, 2011 6:17am CST
I have often seen some friends of mine get into fights with their lovers over facebook activities. I have myself faced similar situations. I have heard about similar problems among friends of friends. So I wanted to know have any of you ever faced this problem or you heard something like this? What's your take on this?
2 responses
mswriter
@writergirl74 (802)
• United States
20 Jul 11
I had this one time with me ex roommate. It wasn't a real fight though. She posted a comment on something I said and I deleted it and her. End of story. I don't like drama. Especially public drama. It's rude and cruel. I don't think it's good to spread things all over the internet about loved ones or anyone. It's not my choice way of handling things. It gives the onlookers something to talk negatively about.
bmthepro
@bmthepro (118)
• India
20 Jul 11
Yup making everything public is not something I am fond of either. What you did was right, as creating a scene about such things lead to no solution. Actions speak louder than words anyways so way to go!!
mswriter
@writergirl74 (802)
• United States
20 Jul 11
Well, she was stupid anyway for putting it out there like she did. She was always trying to get the attention of my friends on my page and make them think there was more to us than there was. I should have deleted her long before I did, but I was being nice. She has taught me that nice is not always the answer. I am so glad to be rid of her. You have no idea. I have never met a more psycho person. All this displaying private affairs on the internet. Things have gotten too out of control for my tastes. I keep my Face Book very professional. I mean there is friendly banter, but I never get on there an argue or create drama. I won't have it on my page either. If I smell it, you're outta there. End of story!
bmthepro
@bmthepro (118)
• India
22 Jul 11
Whoa! I kinda understand your feelings. Probably at some point in life we all face some stupid psychos and also sometimes behave as psychos ourselves. It's good you got rid of her so hope your facebook experience is a lot cleaner and enjoyable now. Cheers!
tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
Hello, Yes, I experience this and I think this is natural because many of us encounter this. There are times that we cannot keep this or stay those away. But as usual we fix those problems because we said to ourselves that we must not take those matter seriously. and thats it.
bmthepro
@bmthepro (118)
• India
19 Jul 11
Yep dunno the details about others but my problems do get dealt with in due time and eventually forgotten, but to my despair only to be dragged back again at not-so-opportune moments. :P Yeah we have learnt to take these things as casually as possible but despite of all these a fight start off in some cases. I do agree that most of the fights are small level(personal opinion, anyone can disagree ;)) but I would like it better if they didn't happen at all.