I miss him

I had a similar situation not long ago. I had to let go. Simple as that. I could not force him to want to talk to me or continue our friendship. Our time has passed so it seems. There are times when people are in your life for a season. When that season is over its over. You have to move on. Get more into yourself. I have spent so much time running after relationships that were over and it was only a problem for me. Now, I just cut the loss. I may have to grieve a minute, but I eventually just move on and let it be.

do you have a problem sunny? i think he also misses you but he is busy for work or something.. i don't really know what happen to you but if you really miss him then you could call or text him.. i think you have a problem with your partner. but at times, people change.. as time goes by, people somewhat change their attitudes and sometimes, they do not but you yourself change.. i remember one experience about it when me and my boyfriend have a problem, i have been so protective of him and so dependent on him that whenever i do something, or even just a day without him, i got sad and i miss him. i don't really know what to say to you, but i think you have to face what he should say for you to know what is happening.. there should be acceptance and understanding between you so that you could be happy..

Hi sunnystarfish! That's just so sad. I do understand that feeling. I have had feelings for a guy who didn't share the same feelings for me. And I think it's happening again but with another guy this time. I'm beginning to think I'm cursed. lol But it's really difficult to deal with this kind of feeling. You miss the guy but he doesn't care about you. It's driving you nuts unless you succumb to your feeling and finally send him a message or call him. It's frustrating but once you accepted that things are not just the way you want them to be, you'll be able to move on.

I like your p[icture :) people say absence makes the heart grpow stronger, so I hope you feel happier when you are reunited with your lover. I'm sorry that you have been having relatinship issues but I hope you can patch things over time and space. Im sorry but I havr ot go as being kiched off computer.

an ex-boyfriend? it's really hard when we part ways with the ones we love, but life has to go on. maybe its a good idea to divert your attention and energy to other persons or perhaps a different hobby. it wouldn't help thinking and missing him all over if he doesn't seem to care.

Missing ex is normal... especially if they left you behind. The real important part is - is he worth you- is he the right guy fro you? Truly, you need to know this. Know what kind of person/ality you want to be with ... What values should they have and how should they make you feel.. Does he have all that? If he is not the right guy for you stop missing him. You will be wasting your time and great good energy. Being lonely after all can be a very good thing too.

not a love expert but personally if someone I loved, changed, and I can't accept the change I would move on and cut all communications keeping in touch will make it harder to let go unless both of us have come to terms and become friends it's normal that you miss him after all you were once together in time, you will miss him less and less and then you will be able to let go

what about if you began to forget him by doing many activities and "kill" your time...trust me, it needs time to forget him

Hi sunnystarfish, does it mean that you guys just broke up?

yes, we sometimes regret later miss someone who might want to go back with someone that special. Non't worry, it usually happens, maybe he could understand that what you do is reaction for what he did to you. Try to re-contact him, and do not assume that he will give the response that is not good you. Better to try... then we suffer for it!

I think you need to contact him and let him know how you feel, if he don't feel the same way and says something hurtful to you then you just to move on with your own life and not let it bother you. People change and the thing is we have to learn to accept those changes and move on with or without them.

Some men just won't say they miss you or say I love you that often. Especially some men wont say something he knows you were waiting for him to say. Missing someone is a sign of love. I am sure that he misses you too. Just don't make him bored by telling him often you miss him. Make him feel. Try to taste the sweetness of waiting the day he'll be comin' back. If he is working, maybe he's busy... Don't make this a start of a problem. If he is not doing something bad against you, don't worry... just wait and trust him, don't lose your love on him. Fill in the emptiness you feel with the love you have for him. Soon he'll be beside of you again.