How do I get over this?

you already have the answer in your discussion.. you must think that you are the last... what is important now is today, you and him and the future.. whe he say he loves you, believe in it and disregard those girls he have before.. i am the third girlfriend of my boyfriend now, though he is my second, but he knows that he is my greatest love, i haven't felt this kind of love from my first boyfriend and other puppy love suitors.. he is also the first one i slept with but i am not his first kiss nor his first petting thing.. but one thing i am sure, that when time comes that we are ready, it will be our first time to make love.. forget about his past girls.. don't worry about them, do what you can to make him happy.. after all you already had it, he will be the person you will spend with the rest of your life..

This is something you'll have to deal with for the rest of your life. You know the answer to your question and what you just have to do is to let the past go. You are together now and are in love with each other. You have to be thankful your man told you about his past and is honest. You knew from the start about his past and you have to accept it if you really love him.

That's quite sad, because you are the problem. If you won't help yourself, there's a bigger chance that you're totally gonna lose him one day. If he's loyal and loving to you, I don't see the point to why you should give a damn about his exes. The best thing that you should do is to think maturely. With that, you'll surely act as a mature one.

You really have to get over it or it will take over your happy life. I also had past relationships and I don't even think about it anymore. For me the last is always the sweetest and because he is with you then he must have forgotten the past ones. What you should be thinking about now is your relationship-the two of you together. And if you can't help but feel the same just be sure you do your best to help him totally forget about his past (in case if there are still memories) by being the best girl for him. And that he is with you because you are the best. I can understand why you can't relate because you have not been with someone else before. But you don't have to think like that.

It z understandable when a girl remains in that kind of relationship ... Be more optimistic and clear in a relation .. u cant always be desperately thinking of him . Be vacuous , courageous enough move on when its time ...how many days u will be trying to be him , Make ur life... If he is in true love with u , he shall never leave u .. Above inspirations r just for time being ..No one can assure u he won't give up u .................... I'm trying to convince u is that life gives many options even for u , u got to wisely choose , coz ur the proprietor of ur life.... If he has left u , don't even think of second to abandon him ... .. U can find a better guy , even if its not first ......... And from positive side , make urself uniquely desirable to him ... Don't be a bore airheaded in front of him ... Show him every piece of ur love ... Make him feel that 'OMG , I won't find any other girl more understandable of my nature ' ................ Try to reciprocate his feeling ...................... Thatz it ........ U r done with ur part .. Left is on Jesus ........... Never make urself obliging to sorrow ...

This is definitely an issue with some. But look at it this way. You both have found "THE ONE" to spend the rest of your life with. It's OK that one of you has more experience than the other, it brings some knowledge into the relationship. Feel happy he has chosen YOU to be with and don't fret over the past, because that's what it is, "The Past". Look forward and start creating your future together! This is one of those things that will not be as important as your time together increases! Congrats on finding "THE ONE" and enjoy your life ahead!

for me you don't have to worry regarding his past..what's important is you are his present and he's willing to be part of your future.. put yourself on his shoes..what if you were his first and he's not your first..what would you feel if he's bothered with your past relationships..i guess not a good feeling right?! we cant change everyone's past..best thing that you can do is ignore the thought and just be thankful that you have him now.. goodluck.. happy posting!:D

That's a simple problem and you must get over it because it's his past. i f you love soeone you don't care about anything as long as he's not cheating on you. Good thing he is so open, some guys I know they had multiple girlfriends and there present lover accept them. What matters most is you love each other! :)

Frankly speaking, I think you are not yet mature enough to deal with your first relationship. I belive what you feel is normal. You are still dealing with your first real relationship with a guy and you've given yourself to him so you naturally want things to be ideal and near perfect for the both of you. I am an expert on relationships and human nature but I have been in your shoes. I felt the same way as you did but as I got older and exposed to the realities of relationships, I learned to accept his past and moved on. I focused on being his present and probably his future too.

You're happyn now right? As long as you're sure that he really loves you, and he knows you're special despite not being his first, then it's all right. Love is also about trust, and if you can't trust him or whatever, then you can't ever fully love him. And I'm sure you love him very much.

Just keep in mind you can't change the past. The future is what matters and if your his future then your the one that counts. So when the thought even pops up in your mind remember who he lay's down with at night and see's every morning ;)