I fell in love with a stranger while dating my boyfriend
By sansuchi16
@sansuchi16 (33)
Jamaica
July 20, 2011 4:17pm CST
I have never cheated in any relationship before but this time things were different. i have been dating a guy(Tim)for a year and it so happened that i started another relationship with someone(Jack)i barely knew. even now i'm still trying to figure out how and why i did it.it's not like Tim did anything wrong.
At the moment i am with both guys but i can't cope with it i really am in love with Jack more than ever. as for Tim, i still love him but sometimes i feel pressured i think i want to end the relationship but i do not know how. Should i the relationship with Tim so that i can be with JAck or visa versa?
I am really scared... I really need someone to talk to and some good advice Can anyone help me??
6 responses
@Lxandra79 (1535)
• United States
21 Jul 11
How can you even be in a relationship with 2 guys, how can you find the time to be with each of the men, I would deff be confused.
I deff dont like cheaters.
I would never cheat on my man, even if we have issues, nope!
I would start with the one your not really in love with, and go from there, and tell him the truth, he deserves that much.
Poor guy feel sorry for him 
he probably loves you so much.
he probably loves you so much.@sansuchi16 (33)
• Jamaica
26 Jul 11
I totally agree with you.
It's the first time this has happened and I really do not know what drove me to do that. I really am disappointed with myself but I must learn from my mistakes.
THanks for the advice and I will do Just that
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
20 Jul 11
The first thing that I would do is break up with some of these two guys. It's not fair with them and if you really like both, you can't keep fooling them.
For what you said, you seem to really like this new guy Jack, so, in my opinion, you should end your relationship with Tim and start a new serious relationship with Jack.
By the way, does Jack knew that you were dating Tim before you guys started to hang out? Also, how long you are dating Jack?
@sansuchi16 (33)
• Jamaica
26 Jul 11
thnks .. and yes Jack knows I was dating Tim before. We have been dating for about two months now
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
21 Jul 11
Hi Sansuchi!
This is a very tough question, suchi. You should ask yourself that question because yourself know the best for you. Should you end the relationship?? Look at what kind of type relationship you want at your age. Do you want a relationship which could stay in a long time or you just want a short term relationship. It seems that you are still young and you should know the difference between love and like.Analyze that to both of them. Do you love them or you just like them. LOVE has broad meaning and it requires a commitment so take it serious.You may end, make the new, continue or not with both as you still have more to learn and still have time for that.(^^)
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
21 Jul 11
You should be.You are effectively stepping on two boats at the same time.tsk tsk...very dangerous...
work out a list why you think you love either, and try to understand what you are desiring in a relationship. Maybe that might help?
@jesterryu (32)
• United States
20 Jul 11
firstly you have to ask yourself, Who do i really Love the most spend some time to really find out what you feel about both of them, just make sure its what you want dont worry to much about it and when you figure out which one you actually Love then tell the other one that you think that its best to part ways, its best to get out of this situation as fast as possible because if something happens and they find out about each other it'll get really ugly, i hope everything works out for you and that my response was helpful =)
