Sick and tired for being single..
By simplyphen12
@simplyphen12 (68)
Philippines
July 21, 2011 10:59am CST
I'm already 28 years old and I feel like I want to settle and get marry. But the problem is I am very single no boyfriend! How can I can settle down? hahaha That's so funny right? :)
7 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
hi simplyphen,
In some point I felt that also but what can I do there is no person who can makes my heart beat so fast 
, there is nothing wrong for being single but the emptiness and loneliness that attacking us is the problem.
I have lot of friends who is in their mid 30's and they even not bothered about it 
who knows your destiny is on his way to find you 
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For mean time try to socialize and enjoy your life being single one
Welcome to mylot
happy mylotting
, there is nothing wrong for being single but the emptiness and loneliness that attacking us is the problem.
I have lot of friends who is in their mid 30's and they even not bothered about it who knows your destiny is on his way to find you .
For mean time try to socialize and enjoy your life being single one
Welcome to mylot
happy mylotting@simplyphen12 (68)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
hello babycathc013,
Yes you are right, I have many friends also older than me but still single. We always talk about our singleness, :) we are always trying to find. But still zero points. ha ha ha Maybe its better to wait for the right time for the right men. I'm sure God will give the best guy that meant for me. Anyway, thanks.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
it is better to be single than to be in a relationship with someone else just to be called you are in a relationship
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Just wait for the person who is destined for you. I believe God prepared for each one of us a partner whom we can be with until the very last of our live. Acquaint yourself in your society. Join a club or any organization wherein you will be able to meet new faces and who might be wondering that the person for you is just right next to you. Just look around you. There's nothing wrong of being single. Live life to the fullest while you are single! Be adventurous! Travel the world. :)
@simplyphen12 (68)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Thank you for a nice suggestion to travel the world!!!:) I hope so i can do that. Actually that is my dream, but unfortunately for now I am not able to travel the world yet. I still need to earn and save more money so I can do whatever I want. For now, I am still looking for a job. So wish me luck for that.. ha ha ha:)
@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
really funny. me too i am already 28 years old. i wanted to get married but how can i when i have mo girlfriend. my parents wanted me to marry so that they can have a grandson and i used to tell them, mom it is not yet time for me to marry and have a grandson for you since you are still young to be called grandma. i'm not telling them that i have girlfriend yet. i wanted to have one but i don't like the girls who liked me. i can't say to them i love you when it don't feel it.
so it is better not to have a girlfriend than to have a girlfriend that i don't love.
@simplyphen12 (68)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Hi edss17,
I tried to socialize when I was in Qatar. Actually, I went out and go for a date every Friday. But still at the end of the day, I am still single. And I'm not really lucky with a guy. I don't know why.
@leahjane0122 (23)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Bear in mind that everything happens at the perfect place and time. When God sees ypu are ready for a commitment, He will send you the one prepared to be with you.
@simplyphen12 (68)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Wow! thank you. I hope so God will answer my prayers and send me soon the man of my life.., you know I am so afraid to be alone forever. I had Aunt that still single, she's already 50+ years old. And I think its very lonely to be alone.
@damagecontrol (1)
• United States
24 Jul 11
I am so happy you asked! I got married at 23 and now - a divorce later- realize that I should have waited until I understood life better and knew myself better.
These are the two most important things you can do to improve your chances:
1 - Use this time to become an interesting and fun person! (Ask yourself: Would I date me??)
2 - There are many special matches for you! Put yourself in the path of your best match...Spend time doing things YOU enjoy. Men who are there like the same things you do!
Good luck!
@simplyphen12 (68)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Its a very good advice, thank you so much. Anyway, maybe that is my problem. I always get serious in everything I do in my life. So I think my life is boring. Not exciting. And so the guys always left me. Actually, Only one thing I need in my life a true love. Unconditional love. Its like he will love me for being what I am.
Hopefully I can find my love soon.
Thank you and God bless!
