Do You Remember Your First Girlfriend/Boyfriend
By menace730
@menace730 (506)
Philippines
July 22, 2011 12:11am CST
Wow...It was so long ago but I can remember my first girlfriend. I remember when I was young and girls were yuckey. All me and my friends wanted to do was play sports. Then one day, BAM...Girls started looking good. I met Lezlie in a movie house. Not because I was brave enough to approach her but rather because she approached me. Boy did I ever fall in love with her. Puppy love I guess. Then she left me and broke my heart, but I will never forget the feeling of my first love.
Do you remember your first girlfriend/boyfriend?
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@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 11
first time having dating was embarassing moment.I have curiousity about how if had boyfriend, then I had my first boyfriend for that curiousity chase.So every moment hang out with my first boyfriend, I feel like weird and don't know what to do
we were together for about three - four month, then I was hanging him and try to let him go because I couldn't love him, but he chase me again and again.I change my phone number, then he post some stupid comments on my friendster account ask my phone number, all his effort make me lost my feeling at all.sometime I felt guilty for that, but finally I left it laugh..
It was very funny, but I won't did it again, that's over the trial time
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Geez...I don't know, she moved away with her family and I never heard from her again. But I'm now married to the most beautiful women in the Philippines.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Hahahahaha...that sounds pretty close to my first girlfriend. She left me and I tried getting her back but she would not, but just the same I remember how my heart felt when we were together and it was something I will never forget.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
23 Jul 11
I never thought boys were yucky! My first crush was in kindergarten. I do not remember his name . I Do remember that he had curly red hair!I have loved redheads ever since! But my First real boyfriend is my current guy. And no he doesn't have red hair.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
24 Jul 11
He is my second " boyfriend" But the first time I have felt Real love. It is his first time to feel this way too. Am I gushing? Sorry Enough of the mushy stuff!
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Hahahahaha...my first answer was to ask the color of his hair lol. Wow kindergarten...I can't even remember those days.For me that was sooooooooo long ago. But I'm sure I thought girls were yucky lol. I am so envious of all you guys that found your loved ones the first time around.
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@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Hahahaha sarahruthbeth, you are funny. It's ok to gush...lol
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@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
24 Jul 11
I do, but I haven't had that many boyfriends in 25 or so years I've dated (I do 'relationships'). His name was Jim, and I met him at a ROTC dance I attended with my friend DJ. Jim and DJ attended another school, but DJ used to attend my school (we met in third grade), and he asked me to be his date. Well, Jim began pestering him for my number, and I 'thought' I had remembered him, so I said sure. Jim phoned and asked me out for the following week but what an awkward date! I was so NOT interested, and called DJ to help me break up with Jim. He complied by telling Jim that WE were dating! So I ended up dating DJ for about six weeks, but our first date included his mom and our kid sisters! We didn't even kiss (though we came close)! And about six months ago, DJ and I were chatting on Facebook, reminiscing about our dating when he confessed that he WANTED to kiss me, but was too shy too! My friends were so jealous of me because he was the hottie, and I (geeky girl in glasses) got to not just go to a semi-formal, but I got to date him too!
@scorpiobabes (7225)
• United States
25 Jul 11
Actually, I'm not friends with the first guy I dated, but the second one I was friends with at age 7--I figure that 24 years was enough time that we could have confessions! We were on the computer chatting when he told me that he'd always wished that he had been brave enough to kiss me--and I STILL blushed!
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
The first is always awkward. But it sounds like he was a gentleman, and you still are in touch with him on Facebook. So it is a fond memory and I'll bet you both laugh when you remember back.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Thats great jdyrj...It's always great when you can remain friends and laugh later on at some of the stuff you both experienced. Love does not usually die easily, we sometimes carry it for a long time
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
I know what you mean, I will always love the first person that made my heart flutter.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Oh yeah.. because it is my husband.. my first boyfriend is my husband right now.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
23 Jul 11
it's nice story to married with our first boyfriend, but I wasn't meet my fate in my first love..
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Wow Jazel_juan...you beat the odds, you have a real romantic love story of love from very young to the present. Congratulations...and many years of happiness.
@Emerald20 (130)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
very funny but yes I remember my first boyfriend too. It was really the real puppy love I guess. but it didn't work out that long because I was so young that time that makes people say, " he's way older than you, he'll just play with your heart". and that's how it ends. :) It's really different when you have relationship at later age because when we grow older and older, the more mature we deal with kind of situation. and I believe that if you can catch a bigger fish, why catch for a smaller one. there's so many fishes in the sea. Choose wisely!:)
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Yes jater on in age we are much wiser. But the words you say "Choose Wiely" are very true. Don't jump into a relationship with your eyes closed and only your heart open. Make sure both are open.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Yes...always remember that you can't tell a book by it's cover, but always keep your guard up.
@Emerald20 (130)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Yes, because some guys out there even girls, make a very shallow idea of a person they want to be with. some may say. "rich and beautiful/handsome" and that's it. I don't really get attracted with physical appearance only.:)
@luanakent (794)
• Brazil
23 Jul 11
i remember... and i dont know how i found him attractive boy lolol
@luanakent (794)
• Brazil
28 Jul 11
it is, more or less, like a photo of 70 .
At that time the fashion was beautiful ( i thought lolol)
but now seeing the old photos: i can not believe i wore that hair.
bell-botton pants( a la Elvis Presley) lollol
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
28 Jul 11
lol...yes I remember those days. After those days I went into my hippi stage lol
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Hahahahaha thats funny Luanakent...My first love was the most beautiful girl in the world...hmmm...or so I thought. lol
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
23 Jul 11
Of course I do! I was just 12 years old and he used to write little poems on rose petals that grew on my mums garden! until my father found out...and that was the end of it....really after so many years I would like to know where he is and where his life took him.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Oh yes at 12 your father wand you I might add were not ready for a relationship. But it's still a memory.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Oh yes at 12 your father was not ready you to have a romance and I might add you were not ready either for a relationship. But it's still a fond memory.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
28 Jul 11
hahahahahaha...makes you sick? That does not sound like a good partner lol
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Well aerous, as they say there are many more fish in the sea. Your first was just not meant to be. But think how exciting it will be waiting and wondering where your fate will lead you.
@agent807 (751)
• United States
25 Jul 11
To be honest, I have never experienced my first love. I have tried to have a girlfriend but it never works out. It's sad because I will turn 31 next month and not had a woman in my life. I have gone through many rejections, never a yes. I seemed to find the girlfriends, the fiancees, and the wives. All of my friends are in some type of relationship, and at times, wonder why I am not. What I didn't worry about before, now bothers me about getting older and never experienced it. As that adage: It's better to love and lost than to never have loved at all. I am working on figuring that out.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Hahahaha I guess they are talking about the feelings that go along with love. I can't quite figure it out either. Your love will come agent...Probably when you least expect it. It sounds like it is your time.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
24 Jul 11
Sort of. This is going to be a different story than your used to, which is why I thought it might be interesting.
Way way back when I was in High School I believe, at my parents church, there was a girl named I think Michele.
Not a bad girl, kind of cute. She was interested in me for some reason I still don't understand to this day.
But our church was having one of their fiscal meetings, which runs late (10 PM or so), and out comes this girl and tells me she needs help in the nursery.
I almost said not a chance, but then thought, oh why not how hard could it be. I get in there, and she has a whooping 3 kids to watch, who are all quietly playing by themselves.
And that is when it started. What "it" was. I don't know how much she really liked me, but she would follow me around after church for the next year.
At first I really liked this. I think everyone likes attention, and the feeling that someone else is 'interested' in you.
But at some point I realized that I really just wasn't interested in her. Not so much her, but interested in having a relationship. I came to the conclusion that most of my 'interest' was in the idea of 'being part of the group'. I was "one of the guys now" because I had a girlfriend.
As soon as I realized my own immaturity and idiocy in the relationship, it soon dissolved, and faded away. No hard feelings, no broken hearts, just a mutual disinterest.
Well... I shouldn't say that. It is theoretically possible she was hurt by the whole thing, though she certainly didn't let me know. I sure wasn't. I let that go, and have never had a relationship since.
Now and then, I do randomly wonder how she is, and hope all is well for her. I'm sure she's fine.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
25 Jul 11
I hope not. I don't see many happy couples out there, and most of the time the girl is manipulative and controlling.
I rather like being single. I can't imagine any way I'd want to be stuck with some money spending, demanding, "honeydo" as in "honey do this. honey do that" person.
Well best to you
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Ohh andy...don't put all into a category or you will remain bitter. Just choose wisely when the time comes...Thanks for sharing.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Wow andy, thanks for sharing this. It sounds like you learned alot from this experience though. Your time will come when you meet the right one and like I said before...hold on for the ride.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
hi dennis,
id say a crush..
i am not what you can call girlie when i was younger in my high school. i move like a boy, swift, enjoying sports and enjoy the company of boys as well more than the girls. but i never had a boyfriend in high school and i was really feeling bad and envying my classmates and friends with their boyfriends. but of course i never said it.
i had a crush on one of the boys. but i was very shy to admit. i get very excited when i see him. i walk all the way from the school just to pass by his house which is not the path to my house, just to have a glimpse of him during weekends and i go home happy when i see him from a distance.
then one day i saw him flirting with a beautiful 4th year high school student and it broke my heart. so that was how it felt being broken hearted.. feels like even the tip of my hair is in pain too. since then i said to myself, i will start being ladylike.
in college, i met my boyfriend who became my husband..
ann
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
I too remember the days of liking a girl and her not even knowing I existed. But you see your broken heart led you to change your manner and you met husband. So the experience made you realize that a change was needed. You are lucky, it sounds like you only had a broken heart once.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Yes...no need to share anil...just talking about memories some good and some not so good...I hope yours are good memories.
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
yes, he is my high school batchmate.. we lasted for about a year.. we broke up due to some distance constraints and harsh words.. we have misunderstandings because we don't talk face to face as we reached college..
but its fine.. though i love him that time but i really love my boyfriend now as compared to him when we are lovers..
honestly, i forgot my feelings from him..
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
Hi ellebj...yes I guess we move on with our lives and the past just becomes a fond memory. Maybe sometimes not fond, but a memory anyway.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Jul 11
I idolised the boy next door from the time I was 5 and he was 6. When we were older took advantage of me eventually, then had no time for me. I stayed being his friend and I thought he was more appreciative of me but I was wrong...seems he was a rat bag from first to last.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Oh, i'm sorry for your first experience MsTickle. But like I have said maby times in my posts here, you probably learned a big lesson from this. Don't judge all by this one experience, there are many decent and good men out here.
@maidangela7349 (1191)
•
23 Jul 11
not sure about the 55th it was a holiday romance and they don't last
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
WOW...WOW...WOW That's fantastic, not only that you married her but you are married for 54 years! Yours is truly a love story. Invite me to your 55 wedding anniversary. Congratulations Maidangela!!!
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 11
first love is hard to forget, because experiencing first love, always think positive about love, although my first love it's running smoothly or not. Because of this positive attitude, you're also not the first love blossomed when all things related to her partner are considered beautiful. A beautiful melodious voice ... ...., Eyes, smile, gait, stance, there are not that bad anyway.
But make no mistake, with frequent often remember my first love does not mean that your first love is the best. Suppose your first love as a gate to get to know your love personality. Do not get stuck as it were my first love can not be replaced. Actually, the second coming of love, first love has been displaced position. Do suggestions yourself by saying that your first love is everything else.
It's the second coming of love rather difficult than first love. This is because the love you have determined both the requirements of potential mates more closely than first love.
Then that act fairly. Place the position of first love love you exactly the same as the second. Do not be too privileging first love, first love nothing more than an experience, whereas love is the love that you feel is real and needs your attention.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
Yes dayangsumbi...By no means does first love mean the best love, although I do think it might be the most pure love.
And sometimes the second love is not the best love. Who knows when the first compatable love is, but when it happens we know it. We learn from all the first and second loves, like you said they are experiences.
@belonephobicgirl (513)
• United States
23 Jul 11
I do. It was a funny goofy boy in my class in middle school. He said, "I love you!" the first day we starting seeing each other. It bothered him that I didn't return the favor. He questioned my feelings for him and I was just 12/13! I even said at one point that I was too young to be saying I love yous like I mean it. We broke up within six months. I wouldn't forget him though. He could always make me laugh.
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
A fond memory to have. Do you ever wonder what he is doing now? Thanks Belonephobgirl
@belonephobicgirl (513)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Eh. Not so much. I'm sure he's doing well. From time to time, I'll think to myself wow, he was one of the nicest guys I've dated..
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Well keep looking... there are many times when it just does not work out but on the other side of the coin there are many times it does.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
My first love is also my first boyfriend but we broke up a year ago. Of course I still do remember him since he's my first in almost everything. We lasted for 4 years and broke up a month before our 5th anniversary :D I still remember good memories but it really took me quite some time before I can say that I'm "DEFINITELY" ok :D
@menace730 (506)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
It always takes time keihimekawa... But like you said there are good memories and probably a few lessons you might have learned.