symptoms when spouse start turn his back on you

When you said he rarely pick up your calls I'm reminded of what a blogger wrote about his father. He said his father did not speak and is very quiet but then out of the clear blue sky he hammer his son without warning or fit him into a bucket and he said fit there indeed. It could be the father's way of disciplining his child but no words said which is weird. Nothing was written about the father's love for the wife as the blogger only talked about his 'awards' but because he said nothing that his father abuses his wife speaks about his father fair to his other half in spite of his rare manner of correcting the child. It's possible he had seen his son giving headache to his mother and when the mother cuss him for coming home late, that's the time he got furious. Talk about short and simple but painful. Most men are like that I guess.

I think both of you need to talk this through. Sometimes a good talk can solve a lot of problems.

They say women have instinct.. and when a woman feels something is wrong means there is.. this doesn't necessary mean he's cheating on you or having an affair, he could be having troubles at work, with the family or even with you in your marriage.. In my point of view the best solution to not feel guilty or rush things out is to talk to him about it no matter what the answer might be good or bad only an honest open conversation can make things clear… wish you luck dear :)

i am not agreeable to call them sysmptoms because the term refers to a disease or disorder. i may call what you indicated as signs. your observation and feeling may be valid, but you need more evidences to really proceed with the next move. it sounded like you are not in speaking terms with your spouse. if you do, then talk with him and reach out to his thoughts and actions. in this way, he may open up to you and no more guessing as a result. best wishes..

well don't jump to any conclusions, he might just have a lot on his mind and don't feel like talking about it and needs time away. You need to just sit down with him and talk about the whole situation and if he overreacts about it then confront him and ask him why he is overreacting. Now the whole part about him staying out late and not answering your calls though should make you a little skeptical of what he is doing. If there is another woman involved then yes his attitude and composure will change with you because of his guilt of what he is doing to you and paranoia of not wanting to get caught. Just a thought good luck and i hope everything works out for you.

I would suspect that he is having an affair. If I were you I'd start looking for proof.

It is time to have an honest heart to heart dialogue. However try to find out if he is overworked or there are pressures at work and where does he spends time. You may get some clue. Be tactful.