a sweet guy turned cold

you need to ask him first,what's the matter with him and maybe he's too busy or running out of topic. my guy is sometimes like that and i understand him for guys easily get bored with talks. thats fine for he's still sending u messages and he says i love you

Hi, there! :) That's really heart breaking.. :( When a guy turns cold, that's not a good sign that he's into you still. I think you should make things clear to both of you. If I were in your situation, I think, I'll talk to him so that I will not keep hoping for something between us. I wish you good luck and I hope you'll have things cleared up. :)

Something similar happened to my boyfriend and I. Last year he would constantly send me texts of how much he loved me and all these other great things. They used to be pretty long texts and I loved getting them. Now, he hardly does this, maybe because he's so busy working all the time and he can't text and when he doesn't work, I'm usually with him so there's no reason to. He still can be sweet in a text but not how he used to be. So I texted him the other night asking if he could see himself being with me forever. He said yes and why, so I told him how he used to tell me that all the time and then it stopped. He apologized and told me he just thought that that stuff was getting old to me. Of course I told him no and that I love hearing it. Casually mention something to your guy and he might not have even noticed that it was even bothering you. I've learned that men aren't mind readers and can't always figure out why you're upset. You really have to tell them what's bothering you or else it'll constantly bother you and he'll get frustrated because he doesn't know why you're upset. Then fights can arise and that's no fun. Communication is very important and if something bothers you, let him know so the both of you can fix the problem.

maybe he's just running out of ideas what to put in his emails to you... why don't you ask him

Have a casual talk with him to understand if he's under any such situation that he is unable to write much. This you can find out from someone else too such as his friend, colleague etc. At times we expect too much and when we get less than expected we get upset. This is a common problem i believe among the couples, husband-wife, boss-employee and in almost all relationship. Why you think she's losing interest just because he's not writing long love note, he could have been busy at work or at home front. Also try to find out did you say anything unknowingly that made him silent for a while. May be even a comparison with somebody else or have you shown interest in anyone else. Try to give a long and lovely note and specify that you too want something similar from him. Wait and understand the situation first before you take any serious steps. best of luck...