A few days back I asked for your prayers I was divorcing my husband!
By free_man
@free_man (7330)
United States
July 22, 2011 11:00am CST
To all of you that responded and had me in your prayers I say thank you! God must have heard all your prayers and mine too. I had it out with my husband for not believing me about his sister in law. Well I was going packed all my stuff and had made arrangements to leave. I said to him one more time take me to his brothers house and let me confront his wife. God must have opened his eyes that day because he took me and I did confront her. She still kept lying but he knew she was lying I showed him proof. And that day he told his brother off too about letting his wife lie and a bunch of other stuff. Anyway the divorce is off we have spent the last couple of days making up. And he has told me how sorry he was for not believing me in the first place. He told me that day to block her number and delete it from our phone. I can hardly wait till she tries to call again and finds out that her number won't go through ever again.....LOL Thank all of you for your prayers and concern! I am very grateful to have such loving and kind friends here on my lot. Thank you again! And my God bless each and everyone of you this day!
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@Emerald20 (130)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
You really deserve it:) I hope you'll find someone who believe and treasure you for the rest of your life. Perhaps, you're husband is not really your soulmate. God makes plan better and you manage it well. What matters most is how you live your life happy and truthfully.. Don't let others ruin your right to enjoy your gift of life. God bless you :)
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Hi Emerald and welcome to my lot. No the only time me and my husband have problems is when she is around. We have been in each others arms for a few days now and have prayed and God opened his eyes to the lie. He has told me how sorry he is for not trusting in God for the wisdom to know that I wouldn't tell him a lie. I believe God gave me this man years ago I was really heavy, and he treated me with respect then and now. I had so much fun the first day I met him I prayed on my way home that God would give me this man, that was over 3 years ago, 3 months later he was all mine thank God. Thanks for the blessings and may God bless you and yours too!
@Emerald20 (130)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Wow that's really great. Maybe it was just a test of your relationship's faith in Him. Good luck and may your relationship be strong always! God bless you:)
@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
22 Jul 11
hi dear free_man, thats by far far the best news you could have shared with us here. I was very worried about you and the situation with your husband. I am no person of prayer cause I think the prayers dont even go to the ceiling let alone to God in Heaven but I was thinking of you and hoping things would change for the better and now they really have. I am so glad you can unpack your stuff again and enjoy the marriage to your husband.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Hi Ritter. It says in the bible that all of our prayers go to God and are put in a vial. God will one day open them all up and will pour them out. Not sure where that is written but will try to find out. I was upset too but I am a person that once I say I am going to do something I will break my back doing what ever I have said I will do. My husband was all upset and crying about the divorce but I told him until he takes me over there so I could prove her wrong it was over. He finally gave in he thought I was going over there to beat her up but that wouldn't do any good. It would have brought me down to her level . If she ever starts anything again I will beat her up though she has gone as far as she will be allowed to go. Thanks for thinking about me my friend and may God bless you and yours!
@abbypringles (1613)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Wow, this is really great news. Marriage is indeed a very sacred thing for me, and to see someone going through a divorce is difficult since it is a huge emotional investment. It becomes much worse when there are kids involved, too. Good thing that you were able to talk it through and that your husband was able to find out about the truth. It would have been sad to go through that divorce and him finding out about it later. From this point on, I am sure he will put higher value to your marriage than you initially started with.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
22 Jul 11
Excellent news! You've made my day!
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@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
23 Jul 11
I'm glad you were able to work things out. Unfortunately, sometime drastic measures need to be taken before people stop and smell the roses. I think while you were packing God shined his light before your husband. God helped your husband realize that things are different then he is perceiving them.
It will be interesting when his brother and wife show up at the house because they can't call you anymore. I sure would like to be a fly on the wall that day.
Best Wishes!
Best Wishes!1 person likes this
@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Hi Sswallace. That is the whole thing they can't go anywhere they don't own a vehicle ......LOL She keeps trying to get us to let her ride on the back of our truck, but some time back they passed a law that no one can ride on the back of a truck.....LOL She had better be smarter then to think she will ever step foot on our property ever!! If she isn't I will whip her like a the dog she is!!!!! I think her husband will still try to call but my husband said he was sick of traveling so far to help his brother and his brother not realizing that it cost to drive! We didn't block his brothers phone we did block his wives phone. His brother always runs out of minutes just before the end of the month and then he will try to call on her phone and he will find out that her phone is blocked. I thank God that my husbands eyes was opened. It caused a lot of pain to me for him not being able to see that is why I put out the prayer request. Thank you so much my dear friend for all of your support !
@ankitbhat (269)
• India
23 Jul 11
thats really you guys have worked it out
god bless you
have a great future ahead
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
22 Jul 11
I am so happy for you, that your husband decided to see the truth in the matter...
@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Hi Carmelanirel. Thank you! I knew he would but wasn't sure I was willing to wait any longer. She keeps trying to get him to notice her since she came back she just don't know how much he hates her and by the lying she is only making him hate her that much more....LOL Thanks again my friend!
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
22 Jul 11
I'm so happy that you both have worked it out. That your husband found out the truth about your sister-in-law. That is great! I love also that the phone number has been blocked. That should have happened along time ago. Wouldn't you just love to be a fly on the wall when she trys to call. Just to see the expression on her face would be priceless. Good for you and may God continue to Bless the both of you.1 person likes this
@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Hi my dear friend Lelin. I would love to be a fly on the wall when she tries to call again.....LOL Will be funny when her husband finds out too. He knows my husband hates his wife but don't think he knew he hated her that bad. What's funny is when his phone card runs out she has money and won't buy him a new card, so when he tries to call here on her phone he will find out that her phone is blocked. He keeps calling us trying to get us to come help him do this or that, which was fine when she wasn't around. She has been buying me or stealing me clothing from the local thrift store since she has been back, I was going to give her a real nice shelf that day till she came up with the lies. That day that my husband took me over there I told her that and she wanted it then I just told her never mind I found a new use for it, think that made her mad again but what the heck she stays mad
....LOL Thanks hun and may God continue to bless you and yours!
....LOL Thanks hun and may God continue to bless you and yours!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
22 Jul 11
Yeah free_man I am glad to hear that both of you are working things out. I am more happy about the fact that he finally believes you. As one member tells me here for a long time now that the good wins over evil and you certainly proved that to be right. I have personally also defeated over evil, and although at the moment it feels like we are loosing and hurting we actually do win.
I am glad the both of you are on the path to reviving your marriage. Do at some point discuss with him that all you want is for the both of you to be happy, which means both must meet on mutual grounds and believe in one another.
Have a wonderful weekend with your hubby and make sure your sister in law is at a distance. You can care about her from afar, you don't need her evil ways in your life. Thanks so much for updating us with the great news.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
23 Jul 11
Hi Hardworkinggurl. Thanks! I knew that he would believe me if I could be in the same room with her. When she is telling a lie she can't look you in the face. That day my husband said to me to block her number and as long as his brother is with her he can call on someone else to help him, my husband said he don't want to be around her either with or without me. We have had very long talks about all the bull and he decided that we would just stay to ourselves and hang out with the one and only true friend we have each other. I can't care about her because she is always trying to break me and my husband up. Thank you my friend.
