OLD American Men and Asian Women

Clearly you answered all my questions.. got nothing more to add or comment.. you said that american women are beautiful, but most the problem is they have this kind of attitude.. Well, what can I say.. With great Beauty, Comes great responsibility.. HAHAHA! ps.. thanks..

Too funny :)

Yes, it is a stereotype. But most stereotype exist because there is some truth behind it. I can't tell you the number of times I've met the foreign wives of American men, and been amazed by them. And no, not all Asian women are humble. I have met a few that were completely Americanized, and I didn't find them remotely attractive in any way. Further, it is the women who accept that control, and love them for that control, that end up happy. I've never once met a fully independent women that seemed happy. They claim they are, but you listen to them and they are bitter angry, whiny people. And I'm not talking about abusive control. I'm talking about living in submission to your husband in love. There's a difference. I remember meeting a woman in a luncheon, and she talked about how amazing it's been in her life. She talked about how much she trusted her husband to take care for her, and how she never thought she'd have a family and life like this. She's a stay at home mother, and lives in a middle class two story house. Nothing special whatsoever. Finally I realized she wasn't American. Her husband went down south to Latin America to find a wife. Even Latin women understand submission, and being humble. I met a girl online a few months ago, and she was talking about how happy she was with every little thing she had. Earning near minimum wage from a restaurant. Not even a hesitation, I asked where she was really from, not where she was living. Latin America again. This is what is attractive about Latin girls too. It's not curves or color, or your measurements. It's what kind of person you are. Here in America, let me tell you what I see. I see women ditching their husband because she just wants more. Not enough car, not enough clothes, not enough money. Bigger house. Better jewelry. I want, I demand, I must have, on and on. I've met them. I've talked to them. I know exactly how the average America female thinks by now. It's never enough. Never happy with what I can provide. And why don't you do this, why don't you do that. Nag nag nag. I met a lady from Laos. And I had to ask her, after she's lived in America for 20 years, what she thought of all this divorce and cheating on each other and so on. She said "In my country, that's not even an option. You just... work through it. You're together." The American woman? Not even close. I met women that told me they had separate checking accounts with money in it, in case they got divorced. Before they were even married! Preparing for divorce before getting married? Talk about unattractive. That's what I want, a girl who is ready to divorce me, before she's ready to marry me? I'll pass! So yes, it is a stereo type. I'm sure somewhere in America there are humble submissive loving women. Where they are, I don't know.

he answered as how he thinks, you opened this question and i commented back as like how i thought. whats weird? anyways good luck

oh sorry, didn't mean to put it that way. Weird in a sense that mostly, when i go to a net cafe for printing or for games, i usually find women chatting with american man, that does not mean i was eavesdropping or looking at their monitor intentionally, it's just the net has no coverings with every computer, so basically you can see what your seatmate is up to.. when you stand, walk in the net, or use the computer, you can see everything.

my question has been answered by andy.. you should read his answer..

Young American woman may not be so interested to date old American men as you think, that may pose a problem for these old goats to get a life partner in their later life stage. Actually i noticed that old American men like to flirt with all young women in the cafe, not just on Asian women, but all racial background in general, they just love to fall in love again with all these young hotties and babes.

there is something weird, you stated they may marry later.. but why marry someone or look someone half way across the globe?.. you can always look for it in your own country.

Sorry.. didn't mean to offend you.. it's just most of the time.. why asian women?.. and if they are like "attracted to each other" the american always comes to the asian woman's country.. i'm just curious.. why?.. of all the women in the world.. why asian?

check out andy's answer and write comment if you have some..

well.. just like the saying.. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. maybe to you that girl is not beautiful, but to him, she is the prettiest woman.. you'll realize sooner when you fall. some people will say she's not that beautiful, but to you, she is.