How do you usually take a breakup?

hi tatsouxd, You are still young (are you?) it is still long way to go When I had my first break up I just went to salon relax myself, shopping and dine out with my friends after a week I am happy and new person again. It hurts but nothing last forever it will always have an ending. happy mylotting

I think breakup is very painful if one of the parties do not accept the split. But if it is a mutual breakup it does not really matter as both parties will find their loved one and restart a better relationship.

you better talk him again if if if if you really love him and your missing him. may be he will come back to you. just sms him some of your best time moments with him remind him how happy you were with him try it if you want

Actually I dont get hurt no more. Ive been hurt over and over and over again to the level where i cant get hurt no more. It is simply stupid in this modern era to believe that your loved one is going to stay with you. Being faithful and staying with your partner is simply not in. Now changing partners, having "one night stands" is "in". I dont like this trend. Maybe thats the reason Im alone all of the time.

I had a messy break-up, recently. My ex actually got me all excited about a special date after we hadn't talked in a while, stood me up, and then broke up with me through IMs. Sad to say, but that's life. How did I take it? I was completely devastated for a bit. Then you look back (because you can't do much else for a while) and you realize all the little things that were wrong that you ignored. Then you just reset. No, you don't forget, but it just doesn't really matter anymore. You learn and move on. One of my favorite movies is the perfect example of what that time after is like and it's called 500 Days of Summer. Been there, done that. Being a hopeless romantic really sucks.

How do I take breakups? I tend to act like nothing happened, I go out with friends, I talk a lot and try to be strong. I don't know if this is the best way to cope because when I get home, things get really bad. I start thinking about my ex and feel really sad. It's like everything I was trying to hide is coming after me. Maybe I shouldn't hide my pain but this is how I am. Greetings, sunnylove123

hello, It is natural to get hurt in a particular relationship. We all experience it and we must accept it because situation like that is very common and we cannot blame others because we just fell in love to the wrong guy. I experience a lot of things from my previous relationship and I think I know now how to handle myself when it comes to love matters. Because I know that sooner or later I will find someone who really meant for me and I think I found it. LOL Well, I also experience your situation when I have a guy which is I love then I thought we are happy but then were not? we broke up and the most painful here is he is the one who broke up with me. I am also upset that time like you that I almost wished I was the one who tell it to him. but still times goes on and I have to accept it. even how hard it was