uncontrollable love?
By simplyphen12
@simplyphen12 (68)
Philippines
July 23, 2011 9:55am CST
Have you ever been in love? A love like loving someone more than yourself. A love that you can't even control your feelings and emotions. Like you want to see him/her everyday or every minute. And you can do everything just to please him/her. To the point that you don't realized you are putting down yourself. Wasn't so weird? Or maybe its just really true love? Or crazy love?
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
it's not uncontrollable, my feelings for my man is true love/faithful love. i love myself the way i love him.
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@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
I might call it immature love in my side. Well, its really immature! I didn't even realize that kind of love is changing me.
I loved him more than myself. I wanted to see him every minute of the day, I wanted him to call me whenever I don't see him or vice versa.. I was so young and immature that time.
After it broke my heart, I've learned what's the difference of real love and the one I had; "IMMATURE LOVE."
I've moved on. Its been already 2 or 3 years passed! I'm happy being single and free.. :)
@rambansal (574)
• India
25 Jul 11
Oh edsss dear, you are forgetting that your immature love only made you so much matured. Such winds come in to teach some lessons. Keep on moving on your chosen path and one day, surely you will find what is the best for you. For this you need to be cool and open-minded without allowing your passions to take you over.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
hello simplyphen,
We have different ways of showing our love to someone but on my own opinion it is fine to show my love but not to the point I will degrade myself because if I do that I will lost the respect and love I had for myself.
I understand why some people act weirdly or become crazy when it comes to love because this is their way.
We should love ourselves before we can love others.
happy mylotting
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
24 Jul 11
I have loved someone once so much. I was crazy for him and thought he was the same for me too. But sadly things didn't work out and we had to split. But yes, i did very much love him and always wished for his best. I haven't been in love after that.
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
I fell in love before.. I want to see him everyday but I can still control myself. :) I don't think that there is this kind of uncontrollable feelings. Each and everyone of us is entitled for our own feelings. Which I think, we can always control. :)
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Yes i am in that situation and really you cannot control yourself almost wanted to go over him. I can say that is crazy or true love coz we almost crazy wanting to see him/her always even thought its impossible to happen. You know when we are inlove we are always in crazy [moments. It is so hard to explain and no one can tell what is happening and what is the right and wrong in your side. It must be crazy...
We [cannot say that it is for those young only and those who are single but remember that love is for all in any stages and situation. To all those who have heart..
@Cactus2010 (167)
• India
23 Jul 11
This is actually feeling of love. This is not same as love. This may be a temporary extension of ego boundary.