Is it okay to help always to everyone.
By anurag3786
@anurag3786 (6267)
India
July 23, 2011 11:35am CST
I think if you helped any person then god always helped you in your bad time. But sometimes when a person is always have time for every person means when any person call that person and call to meet him any time and also he/she go their anytime so what do you say about this. I mean is it okay to stand every time to help any person whom you know or not and you always go anywhere for him/her. So what do you say to that person? That he is very helpful person or very socialite person. I think in this time if you helped any person again and again then he/she always think that if I call this person anytime then this comes to me anytime and this person don’t have any other work. Means he never talk about your helping nature and also taking about your free time. That are always be free anywhere. So I always hate those peoples who need help from a person and after getting help they never remember about you.
4 responses
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
23 Jul 11
I know what you mean. It is about feeling to help each other, the sincerity to do so but somehow they take advantage on us and manipulate chances they have by asking helps from us..It is always a good deed to help people who have a problems but I hope there is a limitation or boundary to do so. It is not like we should say no to help people but we should know the situation first. If you know that someone is taking advantage over your kindness then you have right to say no and learn how to say no to them. Otherwise they will keep using you and ask for your help. I will not feel okay if someone doing this to me. Asking for my favor while you still have time to help your ownself, I will definitely say no to them. I will just help people who really need it. No to people who like to take advantage on others.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
24 Jul 11
i think you say right that we will definitely say no to that type of person. Anyways thanks for the response.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 11
So stay away from people who you think likely want to just use you when they are having difficulties and learn to say no. They will get spoil if you always say yes~ Just give your help to people who really need it. There are more out there who really need such help.(^^)
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@Emerald20 (130)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
It's really great to give a hand but as like other situation, weigh everything. Your safety is always important. You can help to the point that you are not letting these people depend everything to you..
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
23 Jul 11
There is nothing wrong to help someone in need, if you are a caring person and kind hearted man, it is perfectly within your conscience to give a helping hand to whoever in need of your help with or without the promise of God deliverance and bear witness. You don't need to be a religious person or Christian to help out whoever in need, you can help someone out just by the mere thought of merciness and base on a matter of fact both of you are human being, it is very natural for us to help out another human being instead of remain oblivious to the suffering. 
@rahulx1 (295)
• India
23 Jul 11
its ok to help every one if its not bad for our family and for yourself. but helping also do for selective person who need that help if any buddy want help in fighting he want more support than i will suggest dnt help him because violence is bad.if he want help to solve out the matter than you can help in it.
every one know helping to a injured person or sick person is always good because god watches this and they bless us i also helps in my life 3 4 persons who was injured badly in road accident many people just come around and just watch and ask how its happen who did etc but some people like us step up and give helps i never step back if some 1 need help if its its do or die situation for him may be you dnt trust me but i helps to 2 serious persons in new delhi. keep helps good will help you
otherwise am a very lazy person who stick with pc always day to night :D
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