Trust
By DualWebs
@DualWebs (27)
Lithuania
July 23, 2011 4:47pm CST
I wonder, if You, MyLoters, trust anyone easy or not. I personally don't trust anyone and just don't know why. I even don't trust my mother and other relatives. I even don't think about starting a friendship with any girl. I won't be able to trust her as friend. So, a good friendship and/or marriage - things that are being out of the course. And as I said, I don't know why. Is my attitude being wrong? If it is, how to change it? Hmm.. I think that's impossible.. I always thought about living alone (since 8 years old). However, my mom said when I was younger, I was more tractable and now, after many years everything changed - she says that not even she, but all the relatives don't recognize me anymore since I change a lot to the bad side. I got selfish, unreasonable, don't trusting others person. Of course, everyone is trying to communicate with me, have a conversation, but all they got are two words - "f"-word and "off". I sometimes don't recognize myself either. But I'm living with one rule that is "If you need to do something, do it yourself and don't ask others for help".
2 responses
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
24 Jul 11
One can't hide under the covers afraid they might stub their toe if they get out of bed. It has never been about avoiding all pain. It's learning and growing then dealing with the problems. I tend to trust first. I give everyone I meet the great opportunity to be trustworthy. Those that aren't, I proceed to try to point them in the right direction. Learning and growing in life comes through the interaction with others. You will discover in time that we are all meant to do this. You will never be happy until you do. Besides, you should not deny others the opportunity to know you. Life has never been only about ourselves. Give the world your unconditional love and kindness. It will return. Watch the world change before your eyes.
@andrey0109 (297)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
23 Jul 11
I think you have a problem within you. You need to start trusting yourself first maybe in that way you will learn to start trusting others too. You need to find again your confidence, your self steam that maybe somehow you loose when you were growing up. Goodluck dualwebs.
