A lady is a dwarf
By maximax8
@maximax8 (31047)
United Kingdom
July 24, 2011 10:08am CST
A lady is a dwarf and she dated an ordinary man. She enjoyed a happy relationship with him and then got pregnant. When their baby girl was born the man faced much stress. This daughter like her mother is also a dwarf. The lady said that she didn't want to see the man anymore as he was going off the rails in terms of his behavior. The man went into a life of drugs and appeared in a documentary about homelessness. She brought her daughter up on her own thinking her ex-boyfriend wasn't a suitable father figure.
When her dwarf daughter reached sixteen years old she wanted to find her dad and meet him. Understandably the dwarf lady wanted to check he was suitable for meeting up with her. She was scared that he would still be high on drugs and living on the streets. However they found that he was living in an apartment and had been off drugs for three years. The dwarf girl got to know her father. She went to college to study animal care. When her dwarf mother got ill her father helped them out.
What do you think of the dwarf lady turning her back on her boyfriend due to him getting into illegal drugs?
How might he have become homeless due to his drug use?
Do think it was hard for the man to come off drugs and find a home to live in?
How do you think he feels now he can be a decent father to his teenage daughter?
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8 responses
@marguicha (220158)
• Chile
24 Jul 11
Did I understand right that the man could not accept her dwarf baby? That her dwarfness gave him stress? If that happened, it seems that it was the man who turned his back on his family and not the other way around.
I think he missed his chance of his being a real father to his daughter, but he has the time to bond up to some way with her. And it is a decent thing to do to help them out for all the time he just disappeared from their lives.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
24 Jul 11
I think everyone deserves a second chance....a chance to start life all over. If she couldn't stand by him she was right to give him the boot for their daughter...and I think it's wonderful that he has recovered and now can be a good father to the daughter!
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@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
25 Jul 11
Like many others before me, I too am confused as to how does this dwarf thing come here. Did the man go off his rails thinking that he has to bring up a dwarf daughter? Or like many irresponsible people, he just refused to take responsibility? Whatever be the case, I think the lady was correct in moving away from him. As it is, its very difficult to sustain a relation where both partners are not equally responsible and then with a kid, it becomes all the more difficult to maintain a normal family life. The lady thought more about a child’s future than her irresponsible boyfriend and I support her action. Its altogether a different story that the man did manage to get out of his dark habits and is now leading a normal life. as to how he feels, well maybe he regrets the years wasted, maybe he still has his issues yet, wants to make a new beginning.
@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
25 Jul 11
Questions, questions - a lot of them to answer there. Does the lady still feel him a part of her life? Does the man truly repent his former ways? If the answer to both the questions is yes, then it is probably worth starting their lives together afresh. If there is still a conflict, then I don't think it would make a mess of a difference to the daughter as she grown up with a single parent all her life; the new found father can only be a bonus, an additional filial bond to strengthen her base of support. I, personally, would like families to reunite and resume their lives under a single roof.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
For me so story tell nothing to be with as long as she have many thing's to be consider to love what are the life is on this time of family bounding.
@bouncybug (614)
• South Africa
24 Jul 11
I think that the fact that the lady and her daughter were dwarves doesn't really have much to do with the situation here - the truth is that the man was behaving atrociously, which means that his wife had every right to leave him in order to give herself and her child a better life. I actually admire her for having the strength to do that - not many people are able to be strong enough to leave an unhappy relationship. As for now that the man is back on track - I think its great that he is now able to play a role in his daughter's life and hopefully turn his life around in that way.
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
24 Jul 11
Hello maximax,
I am a little puzzle here. The wife of the man or the their daughter is dwarf. Well now I take this to be the case of the daughter. Now dwarf is actually a genetic problem. If she is take to a renown doctor I mean psychiatrist can help her mental age grow slowly so that she does not have to feel inferior.
This is a very delicate issue and I suggest you never to pass comment on her so that she feels bad and who knows what she could do the next moment.
@QeeGood (1213)
• Sweden
24 Jul 11
Being a dwarf or not we are human beings. I dislike when people are catagorized for being blind or deaf or having dis-abilities. Love doesn't judge the outside of a person. we should value each others qualities, abilities and capacities for who we are. The most ugly person can have a loving concern heart doing altrustic gestures for others. It's good that the mother and daughter can have a good relationship with the man at last.
