The theory of attraction
By Toni
@toniganzon (72281)
Philippines
July 24, 2011 11:35pm CST
Psychologists and scientists are trying to scientifically explain love and attraction between men and women. Though it's highly complicated they claim that it has something to do with odor. They said that females, during their ovulation period tend to dress more provocatively and more flirtatious and men get attracted to their smell. However, men who are already committed are not attracted to those women because, according to a psychologist, these men have conditioned their mind to be attracted only to their partners and see those other ovulating women as ugly.
I don't care if it's the hormones or not! All I care about is that I am capable of love and being loved.
Any comments?
4 responses
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
Hi Toni!
Very Good Post!
I am not sure about truthfulness of this theory. I have also read about this theory. It may be or may not be true. I feel getting attracted towards a woman not only depends upon the woman’s appearance but also on the person who gets attracted towards her. In a gathering, it is a human tendency to get attracted towards those who are neatly dressed and behave nicely. Each one of us wants to get noticed in a gathering and we keep doing certain things for it e.g. dressing immaculately and looking fresh, therefore, if some people start paying attention towards us or want to talk to us, there is nothing wrong in it. In my view even those who have tuned their mind not to attract towards other (women) except their mind, unconsciously glance here and there in a gathering.
I am not sure about truthfulness of this theory. I have also read about this theory. It may be or may not be true. I feel getting attracted towards a woman not only depends upon the woman’s appearance but also on the person who gets attracted towards her. In a gathering, it is a human tendency to get attracted towards those who are neatly dressed and behave nicely. Each one of us wants to get noticed in a gathering and we keep doing certain things for it e.g. dressing immaculately and looking fresh, therefore, if some people start paying attention towards us or want to talk to us, there is nothing wrong in it. In my view even those who have tuned their mind not to attract towards other (women) except their mind, unconsciously glance here and there in a gathering. @toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
"glance here and there in a gathering" This comment made me smile because it speaks out the truth.
I really don't dwell too much on this thought. I don't have to explain why i fell in love to anybody right? As long as i'm happy and loved and i know how to reciprocate that love then i'm doing well in life when it comes to love!
This comment made me smile because it speaks out the truth.
I really don't dwell too much on this thought. I don't have to explain why i fell in love to anybody right? As long as i'm happy and loved and i know how to reciprocate that love then i'm doing well in life when it comes to love!@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
You need not explain threadbare why did you feel in love for someone, it is purely your own choice, instincts and discretion.
I agree reciprocation is key to a stronger relationship. One sided relationship cannot survice for a long.
I agree reciprocation is key to a stronger relationship. One sided relationship cannot survice for a long.@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
Pl read - "why did you fell in love"
instead of why did you feel in love
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Actually you cannot really actually smell the woman's natural smell when ovulating but that causes you to be more attracted to them and when they're ovulating they tend to be more blooming. So yes it's your eyes that gets attracted to them.
@koperty3 (1876)
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25 Jul 11
I believe in chemistry and also I think your brain will determine who is attractive for you and who is not and everything is about chemistry. We can make all of romantic stories but I don't think so being romantic got to do anything with love and attraction.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
That's totally a different discussion. Mind starting a new one?
@wiguen (551)
• United States
25 Jul 11
i do think they can explain attraction I don't think they can explain love cause this last one is not conditional its relative unconscious, its a fact that you ever tried to explain that fail. as a single man i cant say how committed men react by that fact, i only know i enjoy women in their sexiest way,
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
And i do enjoy men because of their wit! I really don't care much if they can explain it or not. Like i've said as long as i'm capable of attraction, why should i brain wreck to explain it right?
