I'm Proud To Get Married with a Widow, and a 7 Years old Son,,,

Hi nurseclare, thanks for your comments and motivation by the way,,, I hope what you've wish for me will always be the power for my positive faith. And i hope you always blessed and happily live your life, just like what you wanted,,, :)

You're welcome sofanrahmat. God has great plans for people with good heart, just stay as you are. And I hope you'll be a good father to your step child. Because some step mother/father are so mean to the step child. I hope you'll NOT be like them. Best wishes1

Hehehe,, thank you again nurseclare,,, i'm quite sure that i won't harm kids. I love to play with some kids. I have 5 Nephews and 3 Nieces from my 3 Sisters, and they always trying to play with me. Thank God i love kids. The hardest thing could be the acceptance from my family to my son. I doubt that my father would threat him as his Grandfahter. And also the detail explanation to my son, that actually i'm not his biological father. He knows it, but just litterally. But i'm sure we will figure it out,,, Thanks nurseclare,,,

Hi thetis74, Really appriciate your comments and opinions. And yes, it makes me happy. I always think, do i actually a selfish person, who ignore all of the suggestions from all my friends and family? But, secondly i thought, i'm the one who livin it. So, i've been trying, in a good way, to persuade my parents and my family to understands what i want for my life. With time, it all wrapped up with the happiest moment of my life,, Thank you so much for sharing,,,:)

Hi there Dreamy1,,, thanks for the comments,,, Yup, i can assure you that i never regret to take this choice, and of course, happiness have'been with me since the first day i decide to be with her,,,, May you also have a bless in your life,,, thanks,,,

maybe are your parents shocked too ??

yeah,, at my first relationship, they extremely disagree,,, i'm totally understand how they felt,,, so, i was trying, always in a good way, to explain and show them that i'm serious, and i would do anything they want to be with her,,, With time and understanding,,, they finally accepted,,,

Yup,,, it is true,,, maybe someday i would post my photo and my spouse, with my son of course,,, You seem so shocked? Why is it?

Again,let them speak and judge. I wonder who are really happy with their marriage life ,i could guess some are pretending to be happy and cannot file for divorce or separation due to that judgmental society you are living in (so called righteous) yet more immoral. I pity those people who stand and keep pretending and suffered silently than accepting reality and face the world with freedom jaiho®

Hi there JaiHo2009,,, it's very nice to know you too,,, and so much thanks for your comments,,, Maybe in some country, some people just don't care and accepted my kind of relationships. And maybe the same things happened with your country too,,, But unfortunately, in my country, those negativities sometimes killing me. They actually don't have any idea about us, but they always assumes that their opinions and assumptions are true, which sometimes, have no based at all. They just see what they can see. God, it sucks,,, they could just mind their own business, right? But now, i'm through with it. Now people can see me, proving something that i said to them few years ago, that i'll become a responsible man, worthy for a husband, make money for living, and feel proud and happy with my spouse. hehehe,,,, way to long, huh? :) thanks anyway,,, feel free to comments and saying anything here sist,,,

Hahahaha,,, 100% agree with you,,,!! I'm not type of man that could hiding my nervousness and pretends that everything's alright,,, so, i prefer to being honest of my self and living a hard things, than hiding in my mask, pretends that it's the best for me, while it's not. Great thoughts sist,,, hope it would encourage me with my choices,,, God Bless You

Hi, ebuscat,,, thanks anyway for your opinions,,, i'm sure and so realized, in conciousness, that I LOVE HER SO MUCH. And I hope i've been doing the right now,,, for the happiness of my wife and Son. Thanks ebuscat,,,

Hi there jdex, That's very kind of you to spend some times for this discussion,,, thanks anyway,,, And thank you so much for your supports and opinions. I believe that what i've been doing now is a good things, when i heard this kind of support from peoples like you. One thing for sure, i love her badly. Even too much loving her and her son. I hope you can always happy too with your life, and damn sure i will make a child of my own,,, hahahaha,,,,