Anyone noticed the new people that have popped up?

Yes it has been with me many time.when i saw friend request with a very new member who is very low in point or someone who has no point.bt i have nevdr deny anybody yet bcoz i think they are new and here was some time when i was also new.and still new.so helping other is not bad.we can help them to be much active here.our experience can help them to earn more money from here.so i accept them all.

I always received a few friend requests every week. But, i do checked out first their profiles before i approve them. I tried to make sure that they are active, at least with answer to 1 discussion or even create 1 discussion. I prefer not to approve those friend request, who don't start nor answer any discussion. I tried to avoid getting spam message in my inbox anymore. So far so good, my recently approved friend requests all are doing fine.

Hi bunnybon, What makes me wonder is how the heck do they find you? I've had quite a few over the past few months and denied them all. They don't start discussions, and they don't answer discussions. Very confusing to me. And quite a few are pushing for you to sign up for some work at home scam. No thank you, I'll pass, because I know I'll get spammed and they'll get deleted immediately. Yes, they do make you suspicious, so I just let it go.

I have had the same thing, but i have had a lot more than 2 people try to add me.I have in the past added a few people that have not had any discussions started that then did sent me loads of links that i did not ask for or what i wanted.I tend now really not to add peoploe, as i have loads of friends on here and these are people that do not send me any links.

Maybe they are just mixed-up and still learn how to do things here. Maybe they'll become good myLotters or not at all - you can't tell now. Everybody starts as a newbie. there is no need to suspect that he he will create problems :))

That would be odd. Hopefully it isn't cheaters to where a person is a mylot member gets lots of email addresses and refers themselves in different names so they can get more referral money or friends to join and tell them to just join you don't have to do anything.You will just help me out. I'm not sure how the referral program is on here though on what the referral has to do before you get the money. I used to see things like that on sidetick that I thought was odd. Someone having more money in their account then anyone since sidetick would post who had the most points for the month so far. I would look at all of them and some of them just joined that day, didn't do anything and didn't have any friends to have more points from referrals either so I knew they were doing something to make more points but couldn't figure it out. It didn't make since. This is a good idea for a discussion.

I have been seriously thinking about going in and cleaning out some of my friends. There are people on my friends list that haven't even logged on in over a year! What do you think I should do about those?

Well dang, just think of all those spam PMs that you aren't going to get now, and all those great income opportunities you are going to lose out on!

I would have been leary of them to. Don't get many requests anymore & don't always except them when i do.Have a good one.

I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. If I get a request from some one who has no activity, I usually let the request sit for a month or so. In that time, if they've started participating, then I accept them. Those that don't particiapte either 1.) decided that the Lot wasn't their cup of tea, or 2.) were just collecting names for spamming purposes. Those I delete. In your case, Bunny, maybe you've touched the hearts of some newbies, who've had similar experiences to what you're going through right now. Empathy can be a good motivator, even if you haven't figured out what to say yet.

Hi Bunny! No, I don't get those invitation. If I ever get those I will checked them first and surely will reject both of them. I have seen the same problem before and anyone send me friends requests without make post any comment will totally rejected by me. I am not welcomed those who are here to take advantage from others.

Well I myself am still kind of new around here, but I would have done the same thing you did. I am careful of what friend requests I accept. If I see they don't start or reply to too many discussions then I don't accept their friendship request. I only add people who I see take an active part on MyLot.

I have seen a few around this site just like you just said.I just go with the flow and do my own thing.I'm still kinda new and learning my self.

hi bunnybon another reason may well be someone came back with a different user name for what ever reason.

Personally I am being quite selective with who I allow as friends on here as well. It seems sometimes that when you allow people to be your friends that never are going to be really active in here, a lot of times this is a waste of acceptance as most of the time they are the ones who SPAM you, etc. I often wonder what some people are expecting this site to be? Like Facebook, or somewhere you can just collect friends and thinking the money will just be there without taking time to do what it takes to earn here? Sometimes I think they will never learn.

I have actually. Not so much that new lately but I have had requests from people who have not much experience here and certainly whom I have not interacted with. I accepted.

I have gotten some friend requests like that to, and next thing I know I get messages requesting that I sign up for their site, or how I can make lots of $$ online. I try to help out the newbies, but yet, you have to be leary to. I now wait to see what type of discussions they start, or what type of discussions they answer.

I think I am a month late to this discusion, but new people popping up is a regular occurence here in myLot. I am aware that some of the people that send out friend-requests have other motives, so that when you look at their profile, there is nothing much for discussions, much less participation. So, for me, I don't accept friendships right away. I let them simmer in my 'friends' tab for a while until I meet them up in discussions. Currently I have (98) pending.

I have not done any perusal on my friend's request but right now i have 20 pending requests and not until they've reached 50 posts i'm not gonna accept them. Don't have any idea why people just keep adding friends when they don't participate at all. Maybe they've confused mylot as facebook?

Ya,I also have these types of friends.I do not know why they join mylot then...Its better them to join social networking sites.... I am having lots of friend requests and I chose only good and useful friends...Who do the nice discussions coz I am here to get new things.. Thanx......