hard to found girlfriend

For sometime having a bf is easy, but now that I am single, I want to enjoy it. I know, the right man will come soon as promised. If you are not ready to get marry, but you feel lonely or sad because you have no gf, then I guess you need to keep searching for it. Socialize and build friendships.

hi friend, dont think the negative way nothing is hard in this world unless and until you are working hard, i would suggest you to try to socialize more and more with girls, be it of any category you first priority is to get a girlfriend, use social networking sites like facebook and all they will contribute to you help a lot, there are also various topics on how to have a good conservation with a girl sites like (EHOW)will help you so i think finding a girlfriend is not that big issue remove the fear of your mind of talking with girls because if that's still there then it would be very difficult for you because girls like very confident guys it all matter to them then no matter you may be good looking or no they see this objective in a guy first, so all the best my friend. May god give you the best girl for your life.

when people are around 18y/o they, or i should say, aggressive. maybe that's why you can get a girlfriend that easy. but you know when people get old, or grow up (if they really do) priorities change, we get serious, we actually learn how to think better. i know you can still socialize. maybe you're just at the wrong place with the wrong people. you can keep looking around. :) good luck on your hunt :)

When I was 18 it was so difficult to find a boyfriend, not that I'm desperately looking but all the men that I'm interested in are not interested in me. I was told that I was like one of the guys and not the girlfriend type and others said I was intimidating. However when I reached the age of 20s up until now, a lot of men just came flocking. Maybe I'm a late bloomer? Don't worry, at the right time you'll have that girlfriend to marry.

I think any age can get a girlfriend. is not extended but elesno contacts Meet new people go out just more fun. There are so many people like you. is really easy to find a friend 18 20 iposle but easy enough to have desire. Believe in yourself and not give up. Good luck. nice day!

I think you should not rush up on things. Some girls these days especially at the age of 25 are not looking for a short term relationship. Especially you said you are not ready to get married. MAybe girls see that in you. They feel that you are not serious. I dont know but its not really a problem not to have a girlfriend if you dont want to settle down yet. Enjoy being single.

Just keep searching henkiprananda! Who knows you might find one here on mylot. (laughs). Seriously, I totally agree with what the other mylotters say. At the age of 18, we are more aggressive and we do not consider a lot of things just to have someone to love. However, when we get older, we come to the point of thinking and considering some matters. We are aware of how hard life is and how hard it would be if we decided to tie the knot. Yet, love still conquers it all. It truly depends on people. Goodluck!!

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So,you feel matured now at the age of 25 ,that's maybe the reason why it becomes hard for you to found a girlfriend. Unlike before that having a relationship is like a game or out of curiosity and nothing is serious. But now,you were thinking that,once you were into a relationship it will end up in marriage. Maybe you are afraid of any responsibilities that is why you were having trouble finding a girl. have a good day jaiho®

I never run behind any girls. Because I hate to run behind girls. I think it is not important to having a girlfriend but also it is important to having a girlfriend who always caring for you. And very important think loves you a lot. So I think that is true love. So I think if there is a girlfriend in my destiny then one day she meets me.

Maybe you are just becoming picky and choosy on the type of girlfriend that you want. Or maybe you are confused on what you really want. Also, maturity may be a factor during such ages. Such age range may be a pivotal point for some people to get matured or not and identify themselves. Just go with the flow and the right girl will just arrive at your doorsteps. All you have to do is try to improve yourself and love will just come. And yes, maybe you can try to look for a girlfriend here in myLot. Most girls here are really friendly and nice. Just don't pick up those who are married already.

but why are you finding the girlfriend. your age is perfect for marriage. Ohhhhhh I am already married so no chance in life for girlfriend otherwise my wife will give me divorce hahah am also just joking dont be serious. But really good girlfriend is not possible in this world so I got married and you too.

some of my guy friends was doing the courting at fb and other social sites, then when its time to meet the girl, they already know that they have a chance with her. but on my opinion its better to court someone personally because you will not really know how someone unless you don't meet them and be with them in person. and also I just wonder why it is hard for you to have a girlfriend now that you're already on your right age, because some I know when they get on that age they are more confident to court a girl because they already had a good job and also emotionally ready already for a relationship. anyway I just hope that you'll find here your soon to be gf:) goodluck!

we had the same situation, before i had difficulty having a boyfriend but now i have a lot of suitors and i got my perfect boyfriend . wanna know my secret?? you should read the book called "the secret". it is about power of positive thinking and how you get things through visualization. i used it and through visualization i got my perfect man and achieved some of my dreams. believe me you will gonna love this book and it changed my life too. you can also visit their site. hope it helps,=)

do you think it`s important for looking a girlfriend than looking for a job??

Its really not so hard to find a girlfriend at the age of 18.. Because at 18, thats really an infatuation.. At 25, you should not behave like a teenage kid.. Why you are searching a girl friend?? Just be active with your activities, Be kind to everyone.. There is a girl who already taken birth to you in this universe.. You'll find her one day. So please be patient until that day comes in your life, Until make your schedule busy and be active with it.. You'll do your best and god will do the rest. Cheers !!

You have to court a girl you really like, not just waiting for someone to fl*rt on you. You have to make a move for you're a guy and i know it will not be hard for you. Girls now are in high population. I hope you'll found your girl here in mylot..hahaha Cheers! :)

Maybe your standard is too high. But you know,it is better to be single than to have a bf/gf and argue with him/her everyday. If you believe in courting, then do your best for a woman to say yes.