It's all about BOYS!
By nurseclare
@nurseclare (2209)
Philippines
July 28, 2011 2:51am CST
Boy: I broke up with her.
His Best Friend: What happened?
Boy: She’s just too much for me.
His Best Friend: What makes you say that? What did she do wrong?
Boy: Well, for one.. She only cared about her appearance. Always had to look good, always took forever to get dressed! So insecure..
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she wanted to keep your eyes locked on her? She wanted you to see that you have the prettiest girl under your sleeve and not think otherwise? I see..
Boy: Oh.. Well.. She’d often call me or text me asking where I am, who I’m with, telling me not to smoke, not to drink. She’s so clingy!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she cares about your well being? Because she cares about you a lot? And her greatest fear is losing you. I see..
Boy: But.. Uhh.. Well, she’d always cry when I say something slightly mean. She can’t handle anything. She’s a crybaby!
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she has feelings? And because she just wanted to hear you say you love her? I see..
Boy: I.. Well! You know, she’d get jealous easily. I could barely talk to other girls! She’s so annoying! I had to hide it from her so she wouldn’t b*tch about it.
His Best Friend: So, you broke her heart because she just wanted you to commit to her? She thought you were faithful, but you lied so she could find out later and hurt even more? She just wanted the guy she loves the most to love only her. I see..
Boy: Well, she..
His Best Friend: You broke up with her because she’s good for you? She just wanted the best for you? She’s broken now because you were selfish. Are you proud?
Boy: I broke her heart.. Because I couldn’t see what was happening.. What happened to me?
His Best Friend: You lost the girl that loved you like no one else could. You see? You didn’t want her when all she ever wanted was you. THAT’S what happened.
-Think about it, when she’s too much for you.. She just wants the best for you. Because to her YOU’RE the best. If you don’t like something, talk to her about it. You mean so much to her. Don’t just give up. Don’t just leave because you want the easy way out.
i just read this one from my friend at facebook.
Please share your views..
GUYS defend yourself in this! Are all of you this way? Please explain it farther..
Thanks
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4 responses
@ever_purple (522)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
well as a girl i agree that a lot of men are like that but not all. i sympathize with the girl coz i can imagine how devastated she was when her guy broke up with her. but trying not to be biased i think sometimes us girls, because we love our man so much we tend to suffocate them that though we just want to love them the best we could, we tend to be unaware that we already are suffocating them. as a girl sometimes i tend to be like that but as much as possible i try to be vigilant enough of my actions. but in a person in love.... its inevitable not to love your partner so much right?=))
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
You're definitely right ever_purple! It's really inevitable to give him 99.9 percent of my love! hahahaha
Me too, if sometimes i can feel that I'm choking him I'm making a disctant move and he will chase me by doing that! hahahaha
Thanks for the wonderful response ever_purple...Happy mylotting.
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@vishalssgk (269)
• Malaysia
28 Jul 11
Well this is not always true.
So I will consider it as an exception and exceptions can never be taken as examples. Thus boys don't have to defend themselves on this. See guys have heart too. We too love our girl, but may be we are a little shy in committing it in front of world.
But we are not blind. A guy can see if the girl loves him or not easily.
Just remember that you cant clap with one hand. if your relation is facing rough edges that means you both are at fault at some point.
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
I know right vishals. Some of my friends experience this one, being taken for granted when all they want is love for their boyfriend.
In my case I don't experience this, for my boyfriend is more possessive than I do. lol
And I thank for we are in s strong bond even if we're thousand miles apart. :)
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
28 Jul 11
Hi nurseclare. If that is a true-to-life story, it seems that the guy was very insensitive to what his girlfriend was really doing for him. In fact, he is very lucky to have such kind of girlfriend who always thinks for the better of the relationship.
When I read the whole story, it sounds that his girlfriend is very concerned about him and she really loves him so much and I find no reason for the guy to break up with his girlfriend.
I should say that the guy here is not totally in love with his girlfriend and he is therefore using a lot of reasons to find ways of breaking up with his girlfriend.
I believe if there is true love involved, he will not see the imperfection of his girlfriend. He will wholeheartedly accept her completely for who and what she is. He will be able to understand and take into consideration to what his girlfriend is doing.
If there is a little bit of misunderstanding, the guy should talk it in a soft and sweet manner to his girlfriend, telling her that there are certain things that they need to fix and I am sure his girlfriend will be able to understand that and in the long run, his girlfriend will not do the things that guy does not want.
With regard to your question, I guess not all guy is like that. There are still better guys out there who have a generous and loving heart when it comes to serious relationship. It is just that we cannot please everybody to love us.
Some people might have been broken hearted right now but if we put it everything to GOD, in the right and perfect time, GOD will still give us the best people whom we can cherish and love for lifetime. We just only have to be patient.
Take care nurseclare and happy mylotting!
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
After reading your response I was like "wow"! You explained everything so well. All significant things that I wanna clear up are answered. Actually it is not base on my experience. It's only a story and mostly of my friends say that it's really true. You know what, you're totally right not all guys are like that for I am like that girl, I'm so possessive and my boyfriend will just laugh it off, he's more possessive than I do.hahaha!
Yes, God will give us someone to adore and be happy whatever happens. If we have God in our life we are all blessed.
Godbless and happy mylotting!
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
29 Jul 11
Let me say this. I had a wife like that. She basically didn't hear anything I said. I stuck it out for a long time, believe me. I should have left her long ago. Now, to answer your question, are all men this way? No, Not at all. I am not like that, I always tried to talk things over when there was a problem or something that bugged me. You see, it was my heart that was broken and my hear that was ripped out. Although the story makes sense and of course it is only a story. There are always extenuating circumstances that can cause a reaction. While I do agree with the best friend, the boy himself may have had something happen to him to make him think and feel that way. I always try and talk to my girl friend now and work things out, just as I had when I was married.
@inertia4 (27978)
• United States
30 Jul 11
First off, I did not leave her, she left me. She lied and cheated. Secondly, God has nothing to do with any of it. I put up with enough. I do not believe in leaving someone just because. I also believe everything can be worked out, but in my situation, she took it way too far and where it should have not gone. So, while I do feel upset about it, I do not blame myself.
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@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Good for you inertia, you seem so confident.
Cheers for that! :)
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
You had a wife so you mean you broke up with her now? You weren't able to swallow everything or you were so choked up? :(
Yea right, the guy has excuses, maybe he's not into her. They're really not meant for each other! hahaha
If a couple will work things out with God I believe everything will be in smooth sailing. :)
