he like me or not?

Guys are just like that. They avoid you because they're shy, but deep inside they really do like you. I've had a couple of similar situations like this where a guy kept on avoiding me and I find out later on that he likes me. It's just their "style" of saying "I like you" in a subtle way. Haha! But don't get your hopes up too high. You'll end up disappointed when you expect too much, so that's not good too. Just wait for him to make the first move. Wait him to be the "man". If he doesn't do anything, then he's not worth it.

A lot of times , it is a mistake for a guy to tell a girl that he likes her on the first times they talk. It can make the girl rejecting him , thinking he can't live without her , and he desperately needs her...it also takes away the challenge from the girl. Sometimes , talking about the feelings , just puts away the magic ... why don't you just start some random conversations with him and during the conversation , you may try blinking , touching your hair , smiling at him and I'm sure he will get the message. I hope he will ask you to go out. If not then it is a problem . Unless you can give him some bigger hints. I remember I gave a litlle love song to a girl I wanted to go out with , she liked the song but rejected me , saying we are from the same workplace (we were both security workers )...

HI flowerfest, I think this guy really have crush on you. However, I would first like to ask you for your age because knowing your age would allow me to better help analyse your situation. However, i does seems like he has some feelings for you because when we have feelings for someone else, we'll automatically feel shy. Perhaps this guy does not know what to do when he see you and feels shy.

In my experiences, and this pertains to me also. When a guy looks a women and then looks away when she looks back is a sign that he does like you. I did the same out of shyness/embarassment. But then again if he is avoiding you that contradicts the first. Why do you think he is avoiding you? Just as you said you can't make the first move and don't have the guts to ask, is probably what he is feeling also. When it comes to attraction to a girl, all men are not the same. Some are very forward, some are kind of in between and some are shy. Hmmm...if one of you does not make a move, you might never get to know each other.

I think he likes you for his pal told you so. I just hope he's telling the truth.. It sounds so good if he express his feelings first. You just have to wait and make him feel that you like him too but don't be too obvious. Just like smilling at him super wide! hahahaha the way you look at him not to the extent that you'll ask him out or something.. :) Just try that, I hope it works for you... :)

Hi Flowerfest You will never know unless he hears it from you. Wait for him to approach you and state his intentions before you. It alright to think of the possibilities, just dont rely on that feeling too much because it might disappoint you. Good luck.

Personally when it comes to situations such as this, it is really hard to know how or what someone is feeling unless you take time to talk to that person and get to know them and find out their True feelings as well. When they are continuously ignoring you like this, it could be because he is too shy to want to talk to you. You need to find a way to be around him and confront him of his feelings and if you really like each other than give it a go.

For me yes because they have the attitude that he felt angry if you know he likes you but let time goes by be pretend that you don't know and talked him as a friendship way so that he will be friend ion you then he said of what hes feeling in you.

It's very difficult to read a man's mind actually. I thought the same before but it ended up not the way i expected. So i think that not unless the boy gets the courage to tell you how he feels, then it's better to leave them alone. They said they would never tell a girl if they're not into her. So even if he has a crush on you but he doesn't have the courage to ask you out, then he doesn't have enough emotion at all and it could disappear. I maybe wrong and this is just my own observation. But i really hate to make the first move. Let them do it, if they can't it's better to find another guy.

it all depends on how much you care for him and the liking factor is based on compatibility anytime

Maybe he likes you. I think he wants to find right time and place to do that. Just wait and don't let your guard down. I'm sure as of now he is afraid to tell you because he don't know if you like him too.

You are his friend that's why it's hard for him to tell what he really feels. Maybe he's thinking, what if you don't feel the same way? By telling you how he feels he is risking your friendship. Give him all the signs that you like him too, and maybe one day he'll find the courage to reveal his feelings towards you. Good luck!

i think that you and your friend could set up some things with other people to see if they can find out if he really likes you or not... and if he does then you don't have to necessarily make the first move... i would suggest reeling him in ... what i mean is flirt with your eyes a little and dress nicely and eventually you should be able to tell for yourself if he like you or not... i hope this helps

Maybe because he's shy he doesn't want to talk to you if his friends told you first it means the truth second they are no friends to tell to you that he likes you without telling him or maybe they are helping him because he is shy.

Hi Flowerfest, This is quite common of attraction. The one reason is they wanted to know you notice at them as they do. Best to avoid confusion, stop looking at them and dont care. If they wish to talk to you, will come to you and talk. Thats the best way to solve it.

hello friend, this is quite an interesting thing, if your friends have told that he also has got that something for you too, then you ought to wait for sometime till he gathers the confidence to make that first move you hesitate to do. Patience is something very important in this case my dear! You can't rush up on things. Good luck Happy mylotting!