choose: someone that loves you more or someone you love more?
By sakurabella
@sakurabella (12)
Philippines
July 28, 2011 8:12pm CST
I would choose someone that loves me more. It's easy for us, women, to fall in love to our partners. Statistically, women do invest more than men emotionally. They have this capability to fall in love easily to their partners who gives frequent emotional attention to them. Afterall, women appreciate even the smallest detail and take them into consideration. Eventually, we will find ourselves that we already love the person more than they love us. So, if i were to choose, I would pick someone who loves me more than I do. :)
2 responses
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
hello,
So, now I realize that it is really difficult to choose in this situation because I have a boyfriend now and he really loves me more than I am, he really do some efforts just to make me happy but there is a thing that I cant imagine because I have this guy I just met at school and he is really nice and good to me. It is like I am falling to him but I know I cant be. If I choose him and give up my 2 years relationship? I dont know what was his real attitude. 
So, maybe it is just a crush. So, hmmmm I will still choose the one that love me more because I know I wont regret anything if I choose him. right?
So, maybe it is just a crush. So, hmmmm I will still choose the one that love me more because I know I wont regret anything if I choose him. right?
@whitewingspeak (888)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
Hi sakurabella!
When I asked this question to many young people, they usually answer the same answer as you explained in your discussion.
But for me, and to most matured people, we answer the opposite. 
It is really great to give love. The concept is like giving and taking. When you give love, you are not counting or weighing how much you have been giving and you are not thinking for something in return. Even if you risk your life for someone you love, you don't mind it as long as you have shared and give. It doesn't matter if he/she love you less, you could accept that. That is the beauty of real love, not selfish. You can give anything without something in return. 
It is really great to give love. The concept is like giving and taking. When you give love, you are not counting or weighing how much you have been giving and you are not thinking for something in return. Even if you risk your life for someone you love, you don't mind it as long as you have shared and give. It doesn't matter if he/she love you less, you could accept that. That is the beauty of real love, not selfish. You can give anything without something in return. 