Getting married too early!
By jricky1
@jricky1 (6800)
China
7 responses
@vikramsingh796 (322)
• India
29 Jul 11
I think you should wait for some time untill u understand life and the meaning of merriege.if you want to live happy,you need to undrstand it widely.if you get merry in unmatured age,then you may be in pressure so early and the another big problm is pregnancy in short age can cause you physical prob.so don.t get hurry.just wait for right time.
@vikramsingh796 (322)
• India
29 Jul 11
I think you may have taken this in positive way.wish you all the best.
@whitewingspeak (888)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
Getting married is a big decision to make in life. Why do you have to rush? It is not a race! It is better to enjoy your single life, specially if you finished school, then get a good job and enjoy your salary, and then you can buy your own things without asking from your parents.
Enjoy your freedom girl! That is one of the things that's priceless! hahahah
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
29 Jul 11
and if that is how you feel, don't let anyone tell you otherwise..Getting married, whether one is 18 or 88, it doesn't matter as long as you find the one for you..
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
take your time.. how old are you now? marriage is a serious matter that should be done when you are really ready because if not, maybe the relationship will not work.. it takes maturity for a person to be able to handle marriage.. take your time.. don't rush up things because when you get married, you can't anymore do the things you enjoy now..
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
29 Jul 11
It doesnt always mean you have to go for whats in..lol Im just kidding.. there will always be early marriage... like myself I got married early (cough cough cough)
@vishalssgk (269)
• Malaysia
29 Jul 11
Its a life time decision.
Dont just run into it.
Remember there are numerous things which may spoil your life if done unwisely and well before time. You are not in a herd of sheeps that you will do the same thing your classmates are doing.
Think properly, discuss with your parents and then jump upon some decision. If you ask me then i will say you are not ready and proof is this post. Had you been sure and confident that you need to marry than you would not have needed our opinions.
Remember always listen to others but do what your heart says, afterall its your life.
Good luck.
@ThrillerAssassin (295)
• Philippines
29 Jul 11
Hi jricky1 :)
Marriage is a crucial decision each of us have to take.You can't just simply ran away from a problematic marriage life (well, you can but you'll still feel the pain due to it). Love should not be the sole basis of knowing when to get married. You should already have a stable life before entering it just to mange it more properly. Teenagers nowadays often get carried away by their feelings that they neglect what's in it after getting married. Getting married is not a game when you can call some time outs or resets. Once you've entered it, there's no coming back at the starting line. Enjoy your life. There's definitely a lot of things you can do while you are single and you can't when you're already married. As for me, I would like to get married at the age of around 30 (I am now 24). And I am pushing myself to have a better social status by that time. So, never get on the rush on the idea of marriage. :)