Change in your partner

u are correct dear, i have my self experience in this regard. In starting of relationship we both like each other more than enough, but when time passes our affection comes to a halt.

It is always being said that love is powerful.and i think love can.t be 1st sight and when we love someone,that person become much imp.for us.as time goes,we came to know that the persom we love has some bad habit.and some idiot person leaves then.i think it shouldn.t be done.pure love has equal feelings both side.so never think that your love would be perfact.you have to make him/her perfact.give time to them.understand feelings of each other.and then you will get a new person and an amazing relationship with ur partner for entire life.

We must have something incommon initially with our partners but I think communication is very important. Learning about them tells us if they are someone we really want for a partner or not. Trying to change someone is feeble at best and usually causes heartache.

Never had this change thing for my hubby since we do have shared the same interest almost.. but you better the person as is. That is what love is all about and also understanding. Good thing that he does not have vices that I am going to worry for the rest of my days since when I met him, he was just as open and that is important. Communication to each other and learning to accept the person as themselves. But if there is something that you don't like as an attitude, you tell him straight. My husband knows me well when I am angry at him, I don't talk and that is what pisses him off because if there is problem, he told me to speak it out since I am doing the opposite by just letting it go and not talking. But anyway, as I have said communication is the key to understand each other as well as being honest and transparent too.

So better be loving always, so you find your partner always perfect for you. If your partner also follows the same then their is no need for anyone to change at all :)

Maybe I'm different but I didn't notice any changes in my partner. We are together five years and I see him as he was in the first year of our relationship. But I notice that I have changed and I don't know yet if this is good or not :)

It is extremely difficult to change others. However if some traits are rather destructive for your partner or you or for the relationship, you will have to make a fair attempt. Changing yourself for the wishes of others is also not correct because it kills a part of yourself. However if you make a conscious decision to change yourself because your are convinced that it is right thing to do, then changing yourself is OK. If it is about only some habits which are not destructive but it is just that you done not like them wery much then it is better to learn to accept your partner with those imperfection if you really love him.

Well Thats true... lol after being married for five years Im still getting to know my partner.. sometimes they might do things you never expect they would do, it might even surprise u.. but as long as there are respect for each other and appreciation.. then those hindrances will only make your relationship stronger.. tHE key Is always LOVE... lots of lots of it..and patience...

Hahaha friend what a question or idea in your mind but in my case I dont want to change my husband and not share with anybody at least for this janam. Marriage is not thing we can replace the husband or wife after some time. If required then I can change myself for my hubby but never change my partner or hubby.

hi friend, It is obvious ,because when two people live with each others they automatically get change as per his/her likings.I thought because me and my wife easily change our habits according to each other.and if somebody have problem to change give some time and understand their views.....

I have been married for 6 years now and I really think that its all about understanding your partner. Getting to know your partner is the most exciting part about a relationship, when you're married, you would get to know more about your partner's personality. All you need to do is understand and accept that this is the one that you love and this is all of her, should there be a need to talk about the negative side of things, it would be better to discuss it if you really treasure the relationship. Love and understanding is the foundation of a strong relationship and that foundation won't break even with all the negativity.