Whats you choice?

Well yes your are lucky that even though it was arrange marriage everything turn out good for you..well I hope for both of you^^ I chose my husband by my self :)lol and the first thing I notice about him is his character he is just so gentleman..and nobody actually treated me the way that he do.. after all those psat relationship..' eVEN THOUGH we have lots of quarrels sometimes still I am happy I CHOsed him:)l

I'm not married yet. But I'm looking for a girl who actually loves me, for that girl I give away my life to her. Anyways congrats u married to ur beloved one

I am not yet married but believing in marrying someone I love, someone with whom I am compatible and share a special bond. I am not against arranged marriages per se because every individual is different and has different ways of finding one's life partner. And yes, Congrats for your marriage. Wish you and your beloved "Happy Married life"!

You are really lucky man. I would never choose arranged marriage. It's too risky in my opinion. What if this person would be completely different than I'm? What if on the end of the day we would sit in silence because it would be nothing to say? I did not choose my partner. We just met and fell in love. We are together about 5 years. Of course we argue sometimes. But between us is always love and respect.

Here in the Philippines its not the same culture as other country that believe in arrange marriage. here the guy court a girl for long time, going steady for years and it's on both of them if they want to get married, both person that are involve do the decision. But i'm happy for your marriage that turned out good for you. good luck for the years to come:)

i got married, and at the time it seemed like a very sensible choice, as he had a good job, and not too many previous girlfriends, and i thought i could trust him, but it ended in a very nasty divorce. however now i have q friend who has had all sorts of problems in his life, and yet i like him much more than my sensible ex husband.

First, I wanted to end up with someone who's willing to spend his whole lifetime with me. Second, I wanted to be with someone who respects, not just me, but most especially my family. Lastly, I wanted to be with someone who can love me more than I can love him. That's basically it. By the way, congrats bholebaba19!

Nice story but friend your husband first call you 2 to 4 and then decide but my husband only see me first time with their family member and decided and ready for marriage. No ask any question no phone calls no meeting with in 10 days my marriage is solemnized. But after marriage I know ohhh my husband is very shy so he not ask me any question before marriage hahahGod give me a lovely husband.

Hey Bholebaba19 congrats and enjoy a happy married life. Its glad to know that you have made an amazing choice in life. You definately are a lucky person. I wish you two the very best in life and may happiness always be wit you. I my case I normally prefer being with a person for about 2 months before I can make a decision whether I want to be with her and may be after 6-8 months if marriage is possible then why not. The reason I say this is because if you know the person a little better then you can be happy and lead a good life but in case you end up in a relationship too quickly then you may end up quarriling with your partner and the two of you are not happy. So its better to give each other time and get to know each other before commiting to anything..

I am still unmerried but i have a swt girlfried who is so sweet and caring.and i trust hes as well she do.we are gud friend.and i always would like to have my wife as my best friend.that is must in merriege atleast for me.

I think that you are very fortunate that you managed to find true love through an arranged marriage, and I wish you all the best of luck in the future with your new wife! As for me, I think I would much prefer to choose my own partner - I just hope that I am able to choose well and make the right judgement :)

Its good that you think that she is the one. See its very simple. If you are going for arrange marriage then you must not expect her to be same as the girl in your fantasies. May be with time she will become what you want or you will become what she wants. The main thing which matters is that stop comparing this girl to the girl in your fantasies. because she is real unlike your fantasy girl. and she will spend her life with you and will back you in all situations.