Agree To Disagree...It's Not Hard To Do.

I'm not getting mad when someone got different opinion than mine. Life is more interesting when people talk about many things. That is why I like this place so much. I can't imagine that people will be always agreeing with me. It would be so boring. Also sometimes I can be wrong and never know about it if people would not express their opinions.

Thanks!Hi! You did it! Ams as promised I'm here. Yes I am Finally woman enough to agree to disagree. When I was a child I wuld just assume Everything I thought and felt was wrong. So It never shocked me when others had a different opinion. Back then I was More Stubborn so I wouldn't change my views so I would say abd act as if being wrong was my thing. Now , I see that many people actually want to hear my view and many agree with me! So I am not That wrong . But I assume that people are as stubborn as I was and still am. I assume they are " married" to their views as much as I am to my own. So when it comes to the heated things , like Marriage, Children, Abortion, Religion , or politics I just agree to disagree. It is easier and it does save budding friendships. I have close friends who Strongly disagree with my stance on All of these subjects. It Is possible. Thanks for writing a great post. Talk to yuo soon my friend.

That is opinion and i respect others opinion. I am not the type of person that love to battle or debate in something that creates argument at the end. The thing that the best i can do is to listen first and think what the others idea. Then later i will give suggestions and try to fix mine to him or her idea. I dont really likes to disagree if the things is unclear and the same thing as in agree. But why not to agree if he/she has the right idea.

When you say one has to agree to disagree, i strongly support you on that point.That i feel is the crux of liberal thinking.It is the hall mark of a tolerant person though our perceptions on the topic may differ.This,if i may take the liberty is a forum where one can freely express one's opinion.And if in that process we ruffle a few feathers,we ought to take it in the right spirit of a free debate.Only one shouldn't intentionally express views with a desire to hurt or lower the esteem of the other person.We have to be man/women enough to correct our erroneous thought process or change our opinion when our lapses are highlighted through rational discussion or debate on this forum.

Actually for me it is not too hard to accept if my opinion is against to other opinion as soon as I realize they are correct and reason to change my opinion. However the problem is the other side is not correct but unable to accept the opinion of others. In a certain discussion the mosth hardest part is to dis-agree to the opinion of the others because the tendecy is more on attacking you or angry with you. So some is playing safe even they have opinion to dis-agree, they decided to agree tothe opinion. In that case we are just like a water in the canal finding a way to flowing contiously..

I can agree to disagree as well. I don't like when people are out right rude about the disagreement. Like you said, there is no reason for that. You can politely say I see it this way but you see it that way. I totally agree that it's normal for that to happen. However, like I said I have seen many people get rude on here over their different opinion of things. That I do not like...

I stay clear of the politics discussions because of this. I don't listen to politics to much anyway. I also do the same for religion, I have my own beliefs and sure don't want them trampled on. This is just a website to earn with, and yet, I've seen so many different people leave here because of arguments etc that should not have even happened. We all come from different places, different backgrounds and thus different upbringings. I might say tumato you might say tuhmahto, so what? I'll steer clear of anything that might cause an argument.

hi dennis, talk to a much older person than you are about something. and then talk to another person much younger than yourself. you will find there is a kind of "gap thing" between their reasoning. few older people would agree to disagree. their mind set is "i am older and i know more things than you do". but of course, i am generalizing. younger generation seems to be more open but sometimes i get to encounter those who feels so sure of themselves even if i find it not correct. there is no humbleness in the way they talk. it is good to find older people interacting with the younger people. the former would call these older generation... cool. ann