Things which women want

Vietnam
July 30, 2011 3:39am CST
What are women want? I'm a woman. Sure! When I was a student, there are many boys like me. Almost them express that they want me will become a wife and a housewife. They will earn money and caring me. I won't work anything. But I have many dreams of myself, and I don't want to be a doll ! My friends say that a woman only wish the things which I refused. They said that I don't want to be happy! Am I strange?
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11 responses
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 11
I don't think you are strange. I think your government in China was encouraging every of his people in the country must work, to contribute to your country and you are having the right principle. You have a good independent character, a career type woman. However, you should work only when your family situation allows you to do so. For instance, there is some seniors or any other members of your family to take care of your children, then only you are encourage to work. You should get the consent from your hubby too. No matter how, your family is the priority in your life. To work and to earn, in fact you are doing now when you are online with mylot. ha! ha! The amount of money we can earn will be another issue. Work harder for a better secured future.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 11
Nowadays, a family financial is supposed to be the responsible of both, the husband and the wife. Both of them have to struggle, to survive and to maintain their family. To have kids early is very important too because never miss the golden period to pregnant. Moreover, you have to ensure the time when both of you are old, your children are not still very young.
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
Oh, I'm sorry. I'm not Chinese. I think that both of husband and wife can earn money, the family's finance will be better. I have not had kids. I hope that I can arrange schedule to work and to care them in the future.
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 11
No, you're not strange. I agree that many women would want what you mentioned but then life would be boring if you just do housework and nothing else, right? Maybe there is an advantage of being a housewife whereby you can spend your free time (after doing all the housework) to work on something else like a home based business.
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
Yes, it's really bored if we only have housework every day. I have many dreams and plans in my life. And I hope that my husband will come on me.
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 11
Then maybe it's time to make your dreams and plans happen. Start planning, I'm sure it will work out right.
@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
woman is many wants in life,, so i respect on you you dont be happy anymore becouse you strange..why you say that?
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
Oh, I sometimes think about my women friends and to realize that they have many dreams which are different me. So, I wonder whether I'm strange. I'm very happy because my present.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
31 Jul 11
The men you have met so far sound like taken from the Middle Ages. Are there still men who think in an old fashioned way as that? Because I don't want to meet them. Women haven't been born to be baby factories and perfect housewifes. We're people, and as people each woman wants a different thing. A woman might want to be an astronaut, and another one an actress. A woman might want to be a mother and another one a pharmaceutist. Every single woman has her own desires, as individual beings
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
Oh no, they're modern men. In fact, they still keep some traditional thoughts. They have that views because they think they're strong males. I think this is not bad. But, they was not suitable with me.
• South Korea
30 Jul 11
I dont think theres nothing wrong with it..in fact I find it as a good traits..because you really know what you want in life... and you dont really need to rush into relationship when you are not ready..dont think about what others would say..because they are not the one who will be living with that man.. as long as you know what you really want go for it.. dont give it a second thought,,you might regret it if you will not do those things..
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
I sometimes think that if I agree with that boys, how I look now? I really feel happy with my life at present. I hope that I still can do what I like in the future. And I won't depend on any person.
• South Korea
3 Aug 11
yes thats right we should always try to be strong and stand on our own when situations calls for it..
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
31 Jul 11
I don't think your strange at all. If you want to be a career woman then you should go for it. You can still have a husband. You will find one that wants for you what you want and he will be happy with it. Children are also in the card if you so desire. I would like to say though, when I was young I wanted everything career, husband, beautiful home and children. I'm in my 40s now. I have a career and a husband. I can honestly say, I've been working since I was 15 and wish I didn't need to work. But I need to work now. I wish I could just packet it all in and quit working. However, that is not in the cards for me. Best Wishes!
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
Thank you for your sharing. In fact, if we must work too much and we have much pressure of money in our life, we'll feel tired and bored. I hope that you and me are not both to meet this situation. However, I love to work. I want to improve my professional. I don't want to become a housewife
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
4 Aug 11
Everyone wants comforts and conveniences in her/his life, therefore one wishes that his/her life partner should be able to fulfill all his/her desires. You are not strange, you are like all of us
@singuri (571)
• India
30 Jul 11
Firstly women wants only love and affection from others.when comes to the housewife its not that now a days women must be fixed in the houses after marriage we can work and maintain the house, but we have to give first preference to house than any other things.As we have many dreams we can fulfill it after marriage its not a strange thing it is quite common as every one will have different attitudes and thoughts just try to achieve it.
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
I like to work housework. However, I must do my works at my office well. So, It's really hard when both are too much. I sometimes can't do well all. So, I must give first preference only one side.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
30 Jul 11
I want to be some women doll :P I prefer doing the house work instead of working :) And i do love cooking witch is other thing , but well i can undarstand both sides of the situation . No you are not strange everyone have their dreams and everyone is different :) So that u dont want it does not mean you are strange :)
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
I believe it. Thank you for sharing your views to me. I hope that your dream will come truth.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 Jul 11
o women want so much. and never tell them enough. But I think every woman really wants to be pretty happy and liked and loved. Maybe all they want, and men and women. And all is normal to want to be happy and have no problems. nice day!
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
This is a large matter. However, I only want to say to dreams of women. It's different with other women.
• Australia
30 Jul 11
No, your not strange. in some cultures, yeah women would be happy to have someone take care of them financially, and support them, and be happy not to work, but if you want a career and are happy with that, then follow your dreams! some women do dream to have children, have family, and stay home, others want a career, neither are right or wrong, ... just be happy:)!
• Vietnam
2 Aug 11
Thank you. Almost women want to have a person who can care them all. But there are many young girls have career and to like working for their dreams. I'm on of them.