Possible Reasons Why Some Are Failures?

The good and bad things are everywhere. Whenever we try to avoid it they will keep following us. It just us to make it either the good or the bad. The good can turn to the bad an vice versa without we even noticed about it. Same goes to failure. There is the positive behind the failure and it is normal to get failed in somethings or everything. We will not know what is the success if we do not know what failure is right?

First and foremost it is important to define 'failure' Some will aim for the moon and if they don't reach there, they will call it failure. We have to first see whether we have the capability to achieve our goal and what one does to reach there. If after doing all what is required to be done that might look like a failure but we all know that failure is a stepping stone to success.

Hi visavis, I don't think that anyone is a failure in life. It all depends on how we look at success and failure. Some of us could never make good business people, it's just the way we are, but does it make us a failure? Some are good teachers, but if we don't have an interest in teaching, we should not go into that profession. We are all good at something and even those who appear failures to us, have made some contribution and is not a failure. Blessings.

Somtimes you won't see failure coming to you. Sometimes it's right there beside you ready to bite you but you still won't see it since you're focused on other things. I've failed so many times just because of poor judgment but I never wanna fail because I didn't see it coming. That's worse in my opinion.

Hello visavis, In life whatever we do have 2 aspects we get success or we get fail to accomplish that work.Therefore we should understand it that failures are the part of our life and its not necessary that we always do get success. There are methods to minimize these failures but there is no guarantee that you won't fail. Some of the methods like experience,skill enhancement through trainings but then in LOVE,family life you have to apply your own knowledge or experience to combat failures there is no sort of training which anyone can provide you. We can conclude that we cannot avoid failures but only can minimize it as always there is probability of 50% to get success in any work/relation.

Yes I agree on that but I don't think you can realize or determine it before happened in my experienced mostly after happened.I experience a lot of failure in my life but I always think positive and trust in God to cope up everything.I considered failure in my life is a challenge not pain if you can accept it.Just remember that failure is the key to success. So don't give up keep going until you success.

Well, failure is the result of stubborn-mindedness, one's failure to listen to the advise of the experienced like parents and teachers or people who had been there and done that. Very often young people believe they know everything and the advice of their elders are not necessary. Well, they are hugely wrong. Those who do not heed to the advise of the wise and the experienced are bound to fail. Make no mistake about this.

There is no real failure if you think about it. Okay it is given that failure exists but your life does not stop there. The people who were successful are those who dare to take failures and look at it as opportunities to grow and learn. If you give up living and give up on your trials that is when is when failure sets in. Everything is all in your mind if you think you can or you think you can't.

Hi! I believe that everybody has experienced to fail in life, either in big or small things. It is something none of us want, but sometimes it's inevitable. What I do to minimize the chance of me getting failure is I try to evaluate every situation carefully. I would consider not only the positive things that may happen but prepare myself as well for the negative ones. THey say that it's better to be optimistic. But I say it's better to consider reality of life. And when failure still comes, I just accept it though hard and try to strive harder next time and learn a lesson from it. That way, I can further minimize the risk of doing the same mistake again. Happy day!

I've experienced many failures in my life. I always try to evaluate why I failed. I try to learn from each failure I do. Sometimes I do them again because the beginning doesn't look like the last one as I countinue learning my lesson I discover that i will do it again. Then it is better to evaluate the options before even starting something.

That's really a great topic.. In my life, I experienced failures number of times due to my carelessness,and acts in anything without knowing the seriousness.. I realized my mistakes which has been made by me in my personal life... Due to my carelessness i made so many wrong decisions and now struggling to make it correct. God's grace everything is going good now.. After realized my mistakes that due to my carelessness.. I can say in my life's experience failures are caused by carelessness.. But i am almost succeeded more than 90% in the dispute which i get caught unnecessarily.. So i never do the any mistake once again in my life.. So it is possible to change the failure as success depend up on the issue :) Your post just made me to turn back and make me to watch the things happened in my life.. Thanks dude !

Failure is such a negative word. I really don't consider failure as literally failing. The one I considered as failure is when someone actually failed and then suddenly repeated or duplicated the same failure. I always take first time failure as experience. During my immature days, I also felt heavy whenever I fail the first time that sometimes I hesitate to try again on certain things. But maturity gets the best of me now that I see failure in a different light. I see failure now as part of life and something positive to move forward. Dare to fail!

In life, there are risks that we have to take. In whatever part of life, in all that we do, all have a possibility of failing. No matter how small or great that possibility to failure is... we have our natural tendency to take risks and believe that if we want something we can achieve it... But then again, life has its own way of teaching us lessons... One of this is by failures. Failures exist if the chance for success wasnt for us at that time. We fail maybe because we deserve something better than that... We fail not because we are weak but because we are intended to be strong and to try better again next time.

Don't think of failure as a negative thought, make it become positive. Thomas Alva Edison, the greatest inventor failed 10,000 times to create a light bulb. But he did not said it was a failure, instead he said "I did not fail 10,000 times to create a light bulb, I found 10,000 ways how to not create a light bulb." failure is a thing that makes you keep moving forward. You failed when you gave up.

Everything happens with a reason. If we fail,there is always a reason why it happens and why it has to happen either. Sometimes we failed because we did not exert our best to reach what we wanted. Lack of enthusiasm is one reason due to over confident. Lack of enough funds because we underestimate what we expect. Too many reasons...but one thing I can say is,we learn something from everything. We learn from failures and we learn from success. What matters most is,we should always keep rising with each fall and keep our feet on the ground for every achievements. have a great weekend jaiho®

Hi friend, well i would like to give you a recent example of failure of mine, on Friday i had came from my class and i got a good job in a financial planning company and iam starting from monday, but i had given my graduation exams and the results were little delayed because of new system of check on Friday evening when results were announced i got a fail option my heart just shook i didnt understand what to do at the moment i was very depressed and started crying, but as the day passed now iam little fine and have made my mind to move on. Failure is very disgusting if we look it in a negative way, it is nothing but a stepping stone to success, i felt pain in the beginning but now i have made my mind that such things happen in life and we should be prepared for such stuff, Failure of success we should give this all in the hands of God.

Failure is part and parcel of life. yes,.after joining mylot i came to know of some sites like weegay, exposeknowledge?,Hi5 etc. In all those things I could not stay and work even for one day. I do not know why?yes. Triond, bukisa etc. But i know this has to happen. so ok. no issues. time has to be spent without quarelling with others. I am not like visavis - very active player here also. ok. no problem,

Failures are part of everybody's life. We can't avoid them but we can accept them and learn from them positively. I guess my biggest failure in life is when my parents separated ways because my younger brother suffer the consequences more and I pity them BUT that's life...we have to move on and fight. Smile and make the world a better place to live in for my children....they are my future now.

That's really a great topic.. In my life, I experienced failures number of times due to my carelessness,and acts in anything without knowing the seriousness.. I realized my mistakes which has been made by me in my personal life... Due to my carelessness i made so many wrong decisions and now struggling to make it correct. God's grace everything is going good now.. After realized my mistakes that due to my carelessness.. I can say in my life's experience failures are caused by carelessness.. But i am almost succeeded more than 90% in the dispute which i get caught unnecessarily.. So i never do the any mistake once again in my life.. So it is possible to change the failure as success depend up on the issue :) Your post just made me to turn back and make me to watch the things happened in my life.. Thanks dude !