Do you feel the pain of being alone?
By zhawee
@zhawee (873)
Philippines
July 30, 2011 5:39pm CST
Sometime i feel have pain of being alone, with no one special talk to me, care and understand to my life. But many of us so very happy for being alone, they do everything they wants. This is i heard from my grandmother i`m not pay my mother for obligation for them. I thinking deeply what she mean. So i talk my mother why i need you to pay, she said you grandmother want you have own family so u must experience how much important to have own family.
5 responses
@feeltheirie (301)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
There are times that I feel sad and lonely because i am still single. I question myself how come I still do not have a boyfriend. But then I quickly relaize that being in a relationship with someone would not complete me. I relaize that it would be best for me to focus on things that would help me grow as a person. I have my family and friends that love me so dearly. After thinking that, I would shrug off the sadness and be happy.
@zhawee (873)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
hey nice pic.. that`s my favorite actor hyun bin..by the way, yes its true your life cannot be completely without any relationship.Until now im single and being alone. Everytime i wacthing the drama, especially korean novel, i feel so inlove the actor and hoping im the lead actress..
thanks..
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
30 Jul 11
I really don't have any pain being alone. I am happy being single! I have freinds at work and the interent to get my from being lonely! I can do anything I want! I don't have to answer to anyone else! Relationships are too hard! I come and go as I please! So being single is for me!
@sirulrike034 (166)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
When I was a kid, I used to be alone by choice. I like being alone and peaceful. I would rather stay at home read book and rest than playing outside and be exhausted. Most of the time, I feel the loneliness and the pain of being alone. Another reason why I choose to be alone is that it takes time for me to build trust to someone. I realize that I need someone to rely on. I cannot just change my personality right away but I can change to have a positive outlook in life.
@Harmonics (251)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
Answering the question directly and personally, I can say no. Being single, does not mean you have to be alone in contrast with being with someone in marriage. Happiness, does not depend only in marriage. There were many who were so in love, full of sweet promises but then all of a sudden, it all ended up in divorce. So in order to have the most in being single, it would be better to engage yourself in worthwhile activities that could contribute positively to personal or career development. There are many of it and I would be creating a wall of text to specify them all. So, whether you decide to stay single or get into marriage someday, that would be a personal decision. In any case, the important thing is that you do the things that made your life worthwhile and happy.
