Spitful Thinking

I too find it difficult to live with family. That's why I tried to live away from them as earliest I could. Even today, my family that I grew up with, is half way around the world. This way, they don't get into my nerves, and when I do talk to them, it is always good. I hope everything is better now in your home.

No don't live the house but it's yeah really bad i know what you fell you hmmm i am not sure what to do it's your life do what you want but man that's bad but why are they so evil with them but i don't know really

I think you must dont pay attention to these people. If they are important to you..Ok. but if they are not important.. dont pay attention. I dont think they are worth. Live your life and not fall into that trap of being picky doing . When you're praying ask God to bring peace between you and your enemies. They may even still be enemies, but they will not try to attack you again. The more peace there, better for you. Relax and let God fight against your enemies. sometimes evil uses people to bring us down but now you are alert and not fall so easy. if you're relaxed they will be angry but will not what they want. And if they continue to gossip, it will get uglier for them. JUST LET THEM GET DIRTY WITH MUD OWN.

Most people will spitful thinking is bad but what i personally its a way of getting the frustations out although there are much better ways of doing that too. As long as people dont make these thinkings into action or cloud their judgement on basis of these thinking its fine. As we all do spitful thinking when we get hurt that doesnt mean we really want another person to get hurt. But if someone spreads rumors about you then dont let them affect you. Nobody has right to make you unhappy except yourself.

I can relate. There are just days when the people who I love the most do the most irritating things and you just wanted to be alone and have your own space. I know that sometimes I don't give the most appealing disposition when interacting with my family but bad days are bad days. Sometimes, I need to remind them that I don't need to be consulted or asked for some things. As a person, I have my own issues, and it is best if I am left with them. I always say that they better leave me alone or there will be a war (figuratively speaking). It's not that I don't want them or love them but every person needs to be themselves and alone once in a while and company isn't always appreciated.

I understand that situation can be really hard. Trust me I have lived with enough family members to know. Its hard. No matter who you live with, whenever your living with someone else it is tough. I know you want to get even with them because I was recently in a situation at work where I kinda felt the same way but the first responder is right, that won't make anything better. In fact, it will make things much worse for you hun. Unfortunately the only thing I know to do in this is either Kill them with Kindness or Ignore them. Both are tough and not the ideal choices when your so angry but both will work! Killing people with kindness or ignoring them usually make them more angry since your not giving them the reaction they want. I really hope things get better for you soon! =) Cheer up.

Hello neededhope, I know that your upset right now with your family members, but ask yourself this; what sense would it make to get back at them? What would you truly gain from it? You said you had a bad day, wouldn't you rather have a good/happy day? I think your good/happy days will be prolonged if you continue to fight and argue with them. It also causes stress and you don't need that; our surroundings are stressful enough right? I know it's hard when we fight and argue with our loved ones, but life is really to short, think about it and I pray that you and your family will make up and forgive; and love one another. Blessings to you