My family
By gabbyjoe1973
@gabbyjoe1973 (28)
United States
July 31, 2011 2:49pm CST
My Family is the strangest bunch. My mother is a very difficult person and has been for years now. She has always been very strict I remember when I was eighteen she came to a party with me and in my twenties I had a curfew of twelve o clock I remember going on a date and having to leave the movie because it was going to be finished one o clock. Now I am In my thirties and she still thinks that she can tell me what to do I respect my parents but she does not value our opinoins at all she does things to us and confirms it by saying that she is the mother. Ofcourse I totally disagree with this but what could I do due to some unfortunate circumstance I was forced to move back home with my three year old daughter and it has been hell on earth My mother is like the devil My siblings and I cannot wait till she leaves to go to work because we have such an uncomfortable feeling when she is around she is like a ticking time bomb. One minute she is talking to you and you assume that all is well and ten the next minute she starts cussing, and complaining I really cannot take this anymore especially having my little daughter there this is why I am so desperate to get a job and leave I pray to god every single day that I will get something anything to be able to get my own place I know that there are other people going through some hard times but this takes the cake.
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5 responses
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
My parents are like that too. They still treat us as if we were little kids. I am a mother of three too but my parents is still the same with me. I have many invidents in my teenage life that my parents are so strict that I didn't enjoy much my teenage life. With my parents around, I always feel fearful inside. It is compared to a volcano or bomb that anytime they will explode. I am so embarass with their attitude.
@Shankerj (241)
• India
1 Aug 11
For Parents, there children are always children. They love them and care for them.
You will never get any harm if you follow their advice.
Some parents are just little more concerned for their child, Which leads to misunderstanding between the child and parents.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Jul 11
hi gabbyjoe welcome to mylot It sounds to me like your mother
is bi polar and if so she need medical attention and medication]to control her mood swings, perhaps seeing a psychologist too could
help. you are in a really tight situation and if cannot be too good for you little three year old daughter either. May I ask if you
can get any help from your ex or your daughter's daddy as it could
get you out of your mom's house and into a small apartment. you do
need help now even if its welfare if it will get you into a small
apt. and away from your mom. I as an elderly lady as concerned for
your little girl too around her out of control grandmother.look go
to your local church and tell them the situation and go to your local welfare agency see what kind of help you can get like perhaps even a live in job where you could take your daughter with you but
you need outside help;let us know how you get along your situation worries me. take care hugs from hatley.
@cow_boy29 (236)
• United States
1 Aug 11
hem be patience what everything hapenning in your family, my family was almost broken beacuse my father and my mother always fighting about everything what should no be to debate.
