Marriage or Live In?
By redphile
@redphile (2264)
Philippines
July 31, 2011 8:32pm CST
They say that you will never know a person better unless you have lived with him or her in under one roof. I think that is true, but me, I go for the old fashioned ways and I would love to get married first before living in with my partner. and besides, we dont have our own house as of yet. LOL. So seeing each other every now and then is fine with me until we get to that big day.
But how about you mylotters, what would you prefer, marriage first or live in first to get to know the person?
Your thoughts?
Thanks!
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3 responses
@missyphoebe (289)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Marriage! :)
in a live-in relationship you're not really in a committed relationship :D
@nitabanerjee (44)
• India
4 Aug 11
love is life, love is child, love is god, love is nutcher, but i thtink marriage is eand of love so live in and injoy life so all the best my friend's
@hoonwenting (99)
• China
4 Aug 11
I prefer marriage first, I think cohabitation is without responsibility behavior. And our parents won't happy,and we will have mentality like this,he or she is not my authentic hubby or wife.So we will hold a picky attitude to live in. And if patner have some defect,maybe we will choose seprate.Because we haven't married.So we haven't got responsibility.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Me too! As much as I would like to live in with my partner, I know that it is not right and that my parents will hate me. When it comes to responsibility though, I would say that those who live in together, will actually have a challenge in their sense of responsibility because they would have to feed themselves on their own without the help of their parents. They will learn to be responsible and know how a real couple works. However, the thing is, there's no blessing of the parents and the Lord, as I am a Roman Catholic and I value the sanctity of marriage.
