What is the difference between a boyfriend and a husband, a wife and a girlfrien

Personally, I don't think there is much of a different between being "married" or just "living together" except for some legal things. For example, without marriage you both have no true legal claim on one another. I think it comes down to what you both believe. If one of you believes that marriage changes the way the relationship/living situation works, then yes things will be different after marriage. I think that if you are living with someone then you are just as committed to that person as if you both decided to get married first. For example, if your significant other is going to cheat on you - they are going to do with whether you are just "living together" or if you are married. Living together still has the same responsibilities and day to day expectations as marriage.

If the two of you are committed to each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together, why not get married instead of cohabiting? A marriage license is less than $20 most places, I think, and a justice of the peace can marry you. My ex and I paid a preacher $20 to marry us in his back yard. Yeah, I'm divorced but not because of anything to do with cohabiting or the usual troubles, it's a long story. But getting married can be done affordably. The difference between co-habitants and marrieds is commitment. When you live together you're saying you love each other until something better comes along or until the first big fight. When you're married you're telling each other that no matter what happens, you'll be there and nothing can tear you apart without a battle. I think you shouldn't cohabit. It's something I did when I was young and I can't tell you one good thing that came from it. It was fun playing house but that's all it was, playing. There was no real commitment so neither of us gave our best efforts.

I had cohabited with previous gfs and had assumed that marriage was just like a committed long term relationship, when I got married I found it to be very different all the best urban

All I would say is living with your boyfriend before you get married will give you a chance to see how he is 24/7. Well, maybe not exactly 24/7, but you sure will see things you don't see when you're together in another place. You'll see his habits, like does he flush, or is he a neat freak, or does he brush his teeth real quick, does he take a bath everyday or not? Thank kinda stuff. Also, you'll be the first thing in his way when he gets frustrated, happy, sad, or angry. It will be a good way to see if you can learn to live with each other. Imagine you living with your siblings. Except you're lovey-dovey with your boyfriend. There are as much perks as there are downfalls to living together. So it pretty much depends on how much you are willing to sacrifice, or lower your pride, or give up for this person so that you can live harmoniously. Once you've figured that out, figure out if you want to make it official to the world. And once you do, the only thing you need to make it official to the world is a wedding date and a budget.

Relationship depends on trust,respect and understanding. If both of you have those,then I can suggest to get married.Marriage is a blessing from God.So, get married and life a sound life.

Well boyfriend is someone whom you love but he is not eligible for any matters of your legitimate value. He cant be a heir to your property or you cant be to his. Marriage is a process where your relation is socially and legally accepted. After marriage you share everything with your spouse and if you want to discontinue living with her then you will need a legal notice for that. Hope I am not wrong.

I think the difference in husband and wife ; girlfriend and boyfriend will be the commitment of giving a promise before God to be there for one another in a marriage. When you are girlfriend and boyfriend you can split up easier. As you are together you grow to learn each others differences and similarities while your love matures for one another. But there are people who after a few months know that they are right for each other and get married to remain married for lifetime. Others need some years to grow together before getting married. It is very individual. Listen to your heart for your decision.

Marriage is based on trust, love, respect and understanding with each other and its a long term relationship. .It is also accepting each imperfection. .So if you think you love each other in-spite of each imperfection why not get married. . that's one key of a successful marriage.