I myself

Be yourself and not a follower. If you return and need alone time for you, then you take the leave and do not affect you. The others are selfish and only want to have you as they want it, but if you're not, do not be bent. When friendships are broken, there were no real friendships.

How about both? I can not stand such parties so I'm taking because "my" time. Otherwise I spend my time with friends. Always as much as it probably is me. No more. Sometimes I simply say no sometimes. I have no time today. (I would now finally the one book to read to see the film. Or what to do with the family. ... Okay, say you do not have to. I have some time today goes well Good luck

Yes, everything is not so easy sometimes. Hmm, could you imagine that everything you are, which both belong to you? I am working well for some time with myself, I've also searched my true self. But now I am somewhat aware of what it was not for some time. Namely that everything I do and feel, also belongs to me. This sounds obvious, but to me it was not clear. So it looks a part of me for example as meaningless in that, whenever I play a PC game longer. But I need that, I do not just happen. It is a form of distraction, while others may act out parts, which are otherwise well in everyday life too short. But now more about you. I do not think that you just do something with the others, just because they want it that way. You want it too, a part of you wants it. We all need a little social contact. I am also very happy to be withdrawn and often alone, I still need social contact on a regular basis, though not as much. Now you have but also other parts that probably need more rest and solitude. So it seems to be a contradiction, but you need both, contact with others and time for yourself alone. "In old patterns fall "..., yes. You've probably changed, you were once very lonely and are now very "sociable". The others see as a positive development. But it is only good for you, if you're happy and well balanced. So take your time as well as to compensate said time for you. You need not be completely alone again.

Meanwhile, you want to be you! This is exhausting for the other .,... because they have to take you seriously .. Is a worthwhile effort, even if they will need time for a while to get to know you once ... But apparently you need to know you and your needs first and learn .. to live out this! Much joy to you on your self-discovery!

It's a shame that only now you want to start to be yourself ... that one should really grow up with the young person to ... if others know you're just different, it really hard to believe you are the crying is true I really different ... you yourself should be in any case as you really are and that you and not for others what others think about you no matter you should be you should also make any changes just to please others

It better be, I like his own as a mask to be reset, only you should be careful with your melancholy. I am always my own and the people around me would probably not recognize me again if I would change me. They would miss what I always tell my truths clearly and my reactions to many things which appear so in life.

Do what you think is best. Discovering oneself is supposed to be one of the easiest as well as one of the most difficult tasks possible! Once you find the true you, you realize how easy it has been, but until then, its uphill all the way while carrying more than your own weight along!