Are short wedding dresses trashy

@jazzyrae (1745)
United States
August 1, 2011 1:39pm CST
Im only 5'1 so I hate big dresses but everyone says short wedding dresses are tacky. I just don't know if I can pull off a traditional dreSs though. What's your guys opinion
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12 responses
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
1 Aug 11
You say you want a short one, but he, your future husband, what he have to say about? How he preffer?
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
1 Aug 11
Typical male response "you will look good in anything"
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
1 Aug 11
That is not necessary a "typical male answer". Involve him. Or just do as you want to do and hope he will stay on your side ...
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
1 Aug 11
He'll be looking at you with love in his eyes...if you wore a gummy sack he probably would be happy....just go with what you want and enjoy your day!
@Galena (9110)
1 Aug 11
the most recent wedding I went to, the bride wore a dress about knee length at the front and ankle length at the back. she looked absolutely beautiful.
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
2 Aug 11
See here: http://www.weddingplanideas.com/best-wedding-dresses.html/asymetric-nechline-short-best-wedding-dress
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
2 Aug 11
Love it
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
1 Aug 11
Hmmm I have never seen one like that might have to look em up thanks
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
i think you can pull it off. i am also your height but when i became a bridesmaid, i was able to pull of a long dress and it was perfect! just know how it can compliment your best assets. usually for short girls like us, we'd be able to look better in empire cut dresses. makes us look taller =) goodluck friend! =)
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
7 Aug 11
Hmmm thank you
@youless (112366)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Aug 11
I don't think the short wedding dresses are tacky. But I think they are not formal enough. Since wedding is quite important for women. So the wedding gowns are usually long and it will make you look elegant and special. Your dresses shall be different than others so that others can tell you are the bride. I love China
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
2 Aug 11
Good point
• United States
1 Aug 11
I think a short dress only looks tacky if it's super tight too. Since you are short try a length right at your knees or a little below. I am 5'2 and my dress was kneelength. Maybe you could also have a seamstress or someone to take up the dress a little bit if you find one you like that's too long.
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
1 Aug 11
y amost dresses you can always get altered that is a good point.
@Mayuko (1268)
• United States
1 Aug 11
I don't like the look of wedding dresses that are above the knee. I wouldn't say they look trashy, but I don't think they look as beautiful, and classy as longer dresses. I'm not sure what length you had in mind, but I would suggest the hem reach your shin. Like this: http://www.beachweddingdressesblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/tea-length-wedding-dress.jpg
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
1 Aug 11
Thanks I really like the look of that one
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
1 Aug 11
I am also short and wore a short wedding dress...I would have look terrible in a long one! You have to go with what feels right for you as it's your wedding! My niece just got married in a short dress...it was strapless and beautiful!
@dodo19 (47279)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Aug 11
Honestly, I don't think that short wedding dresses are trashy or anything like that. I think that there are some short wedding dresses, which are very nice. If you prefer wearing a short one, and you find one that you love and feel good in, then I definitely think that that's what you should go with. Although some long dresses look good on small women. I'm 5"1 and had a long dress with a bit of a train. I received good complements. But at the end of the day you need to choose the dress you love and feel comfortable in.
@jazzyrae (1745)
• United States
1 Aug 11
Thank you
• United States
12 Aug 11
Hi there, No I don't think short wedding dresses look trashy and or tacky. Really it is what you are comfortable with and happy on your big day. I would say that you try on both styles and see how you like them on you. If you like a short and or longer dress then go simply with what you like. I understand many like to go traditional while some like to really change things up. I am all for what the bride likes as after all it is her big day and she will remember that forever. Best of luck and hope you enjoy your wedding day.
• China
4 Aug 11
it's your wedding instead of others', so wear whatever you like. BTW, I don't think short dresses are tacky.to the contrary, it's sexy and interesting and novel
@benhc123 (27)
1 Aug 11
To be honest..... It doesn't matter
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Weeding comes once in our life,it doesn't really matter what they say.As long as you feel comfortable.Just enjoy it and look forward for the coming days of your life with the one you choose to take the sacred vow.