i wanna merry her ,but i am not old enough

Well firstly you haven't been dating for too long but in the end that doesn't really matter. However the longer you have been together the more sure you will about the relationship and the decision you want to make. Getting married is a serious thing to consider and should be thought over. If you love each other then then why not? However not having your parents know about the relationship worries me. I think you would need to tell them what you are thinking about. Its a very big decision to make and it affects your life in every way as you know it now. I think it would be wise to wait a bit and see where the relationship takes. There is no rush, you have your whole life ahead of you! Good luck and I hope you are happy!

Welcome to Mylot! Age does not matter in love and marriage. As long as you both love her sincerely and understand well, then there are nothing to worry about. Age is just a number.

well you've not been together that long, so waiting a while until you're old enough to marry won't be a bad thing. it doesn't matter that she's older than you. five years isn't much of an age gap.

Hey when you love her then what is stopping you from approaching her parents and revealing the facts . Does her age really matter to you ? If you love someone these things don't make differences . But if your age is a constraint then you might wait for some more time till you reach your age and then go ahead with everything . If there is true love nothing will stop your marriage. All the best and loving prayers for you :)

So i just want to ask you a question "how old r u?" :) under 18?