When Did You Know?
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
August 3, 2011 9:07am CST
My husband and I have been together for 7 years now. I knew he was my soul mate when we were separated 6 years ago and any guy that tried to get with me only reminded me of my husband and made me want him and no one else. Other men almost repulsed me. All I could think of and all I wanted was him. The day we were back together was the happiest time of my life. A lot of guys would try to come into my life and my heart only belonged to Johnny.
When did you realize you found your soul mate? How did you know they were the one for you forever? Thoughts please...=)
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11 responses
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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3 Aug 11
i realised my girl was my soul mate because we were both nearly going to punch each other one night.. our tempers are the same. we met in a bar and we started to fight through being drunk. 2 weeks later we met again, apologised to each other, and i sang walking in memphis to her because i was drunk, she said she loved my voice.. and that was it. she stayed in my house that evening and we've only spent 4 nights apart since :)
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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9 Aug 11
i know its a funny story, especially when we act it out and pretend to punch each other.
ps] how'd the move go? has it happened yet?
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Aug 11
LOL, now that's one way to meet your soul mate, LOL. 
Aw that is so awesome. I am glad you found the one your meant to be with. =)
Aw that is so awesome. I am glad you found the one your meant to be with. =)
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
3 Aug 11
The moment I realized that Everything I Ever wanted in a guy , My guy naturally had. The moment I realized he wasn't going to disappear. He Wanted to remain with me because he liked And loved me! That's when I knew he was made for me and that he Knew I was for him. He fell for me way before I fell for him! He waited patiently for me to open my eyes and see what was right in front of me. By the grace of G-d I did. Now I only Want him. When I do notice male beauties , they make me want him more. We are One and I'm so happy.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 11
That is really awesome! I love my husband with his flaws and he loves me with mine also. My husband and I have been through more than most couples our ages but we fight every single day for our marriage. We have been through being homeless together, having a miscarriage, and financial struggles constantly. Nothing is ever just "good" for us but that tells me we are definitely meant for each other because we can get through it all.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
9 Aug 11
I had no idea! Being homeless is one thing but to lose a baby you wanted, That's hell on earth! Girl , you have been through so much ! This move should be a piece of cake. You are due some good things ! Now I know why I feel this is a good thing . You are due!
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
I am newly wed. Being together with your soul mate is a big gift for you. And I am happy for you because you get back together.
Well, it's not true to others and for me it's early to tell. I love my husband that's nothing to doubt. But I defined and described soul mate as the ONE planned for you. However, marriage is love and decision. No one can tell if your decision marrying the person was the right after you have spend together in good and bad times. It might not turn good but you decided to love him, so be it.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 11
Just because you are a newly wed doesn't mean that you don't know if he is man for you for all eternity. I knew from the day I met him that I was going to marry him. We fight for our marriage every single day. We want nothing else but each other. We have gotten through so many things together that most couples would have been divorced already if it happened to them. Somehow it makes us stronger as a couple. =)
@princess8881 (1630)
• South Korea
3 Aug 11
Our love story was is a whirlwind romance and its love of first sight.. I dont know though if he is my soulmate.. but I feel the same way the way that you do.. HE COMPLETES ME
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 11
That is great! I am glad you have that romance in your life. I don't have that but I am willing to deal without it for him...
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
3 Aug 11
this is very nice when you know you have found your soul mate.
if you found yourself part of their half.
Me and my husband are together 3 and a half years and feel that we have for each other.
I also can not imagine that will ever be with someone else.
My husband is my great love and want to be with him forever.
Thanks for discussion and a nice day!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 11
It is amazing finding your soulmate. I would never and could never be truly happy with anyone else the way I am with him. Things are not always perfect but through it all he is the one I want there to comfort me and make things better. =)
@koperty3 (1876)
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3 Aug 11
I'm with my partner 5 years now. When we met and decided to be together or to try to be together was herd period of my life. We were so different. The moment we start talking instead of arguing I understood that he is my soul mate. I realized that if we can create some compromise so this man knows how to handle me. As 5 years passed we know that we like each other company we like to do so many things together and we love each other very much. As for arguments we do it really rarely maybe twice a year. I'm happy with him. He is my love and my friend.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Aug 11
That is really awesome. My husband and I fight more than some couples but I know that is because we are ALWAYS having money struggles. We love each other more than anything and at the end of the day we know it.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
I realized my husband was my soulmate when all these thoughts and images of us living together leading to a hardened life rushed in. We'd be buried in debt, have no place to live, run out of money on a regular basis to the point that we'd have no cash on hand in case of a medical emergency, or even run out of money for milk for our children to be. We'd be jumping from job to job, and end up living in the slums.
And I knew that despite these thoughts, I would never turn back. I would weather the storm with him, work through every problem with him, face every trial with him. And now, we're married.
@sachiare22 (50)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
wow.. happy for you... but havent met my soulmate yet... and i want to know that hes the one when times comes like you do... =)
@pacrptc (231)
• United States
3 Aug 11
i realized i found my soul mate when i i thought about was being with him... even when i am mad at him, i look at him and see everything i love... i have slight separation anxiety when he is not with me... every time i see another guy all i see is my husband... :) and that is how i know
@janevi (888)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
You are lucky to know your soulmate.:-)
I agree that distance and time is just a test of how much you value one another.
Finding your soulmate is like finding a treasure that ones you find it, you can experience peace, happiness and contentment.A little misunderstanding sometimes is just one of the ways to knowing one another more deeply.
Congratulations!
