How to get over your EX?
@mitchikoy0305 (88)
Philippines
August 4, 2011 5:54am CST
I finally find it so hard to forget my ex bf when I saw all the places that we've been through everyday. The motorcycles in the street(actually him driving his motorcycle) and even when I saw someone riding one in his body built I get alarmed and nervous. Sometimes, I find myself stunned and timid at the same time. Since we broke up, I'm trying to move on and not to think of him and make myself busy. I enrolled myself in an evening class so that the only thing I can do is to sleep after attending my class and work again the next day...
But how can I forget him when I didn't do anything the only person enter my mind all the time is him....and only him! :( What will I do?
4 responses
@minomarimat (372)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
excuse me for a short first response (at least from me), but may I know how long has it been since you guys broke up?
@mitchikoy0305 (88)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
For only a month, but we see each other everyday... I was the one who broke up because of his ex-girlfriend that I saw in Facebook. It all started when I saw a thread of comments of that girl and my boy. I got nervous when I saw it and can't explain the feeling so what I did is asked the girl if my boyfriend is her friend and she said yes, actually my boyfriend's neighbor. The conversation was very smooth until I introduce myself that I'm his girlfriend, all of the sudden the ambiance changed and she said "Please don't bother to send messages to me because I already have a fiance and I'm happy. My intention is just to know her not knowing the real score between them.At first, my boyfriend didn't tell me anything about that girl but his first reaction was very angry that time.I was confused that time until I decided to quit in the relationship and he didn't mind to bring back again.. It hurts a lot...he told me that he's not the type of person who will explain his every relationship to me in the past...
Now, we don't have any communication at all...I also blocked the two of them in Facebook.
@jasmeena (846)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 11
OK this is my story: In 2007, my ex,who is also my bro-in-law`s cousin, broke up with me for another girl. Our relationship was a little bit complicated as his dad is my bro-in-law`s uncle and their family relationship is not that good after my ex's dad married a widow with 2 children and different religion ( my ex`s mom) and the marriage ended up in divorce. My ex couldn`t fight for our relationship and after I found out with my own way that he left me for another girl, I felt very sad,angry,guilty and bla bla bla. a few months later, he asked me"how r you?"and I replied"well fine,even getting much better after you left".Then he still denied"we broke up not because of another woman".WTFFFFF????I explained to him that he should`ve done something to save our relationship and he olby said"Sorry"and when I asked him about his feeling, his wanser was"Honestly speaking, I still miss you". Oh come onnnnnn....OK, he is handsome,but he is not the one worth fighting for. At first, I still felt guilty that"I should`ve done somehting to fight for our relationship" etc but after my friends reminded me of being grateful that he IS not my hubby, I realized yeah maybe there will be someone better than him, who loves me and i love him too. I know it takes time, but I still believe that there gotta be somebody for me like that. I got over him after a year. I continued my activity, met lots of people and I started to get better now.
@jobenmakapangyarihan (546)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
i have also gone to that kind of problem. and i think the best way you can do is not to avoid your ex-boyfriend, because avoiding him will only make you miss him. i am not saying go a date with him. but at least live your life as it is when you are together. there is a big world and there are many good looking guys(just like me LOL
). so don't waste your time being sad. :)
). so don't waste your time being sad. :) @mitchikoy0305 (88)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Hello, Jobenmakapangyarihan!I've done that actually, I still make some missed calls, texting some love quotes or even mischievous text to make the situation light. After we had a fight last June 13 he started to avoid me nor text me back. But when I have to go home everyday and wait for a jeepney at the street where he parks he's single to wait for me when we had a date, I always found myself freeze not knowing that I'm still thinking his last facial expression the last time he fetch me to go to church at Sta.Cruz, Manila. Or when I see a couple riding on a motorcycle, I can't stop myself reminiscing how good it was when were still together, laughing at the simple jokes and eating at our favorite Fastfood chain before going home, getting wet on the rain during our way home, talking some plans, asking our interests... everything!!!Even his smile when I comb his hair using my hands..even the unexpected first kiss on my lips when he was waiting for me to ride a jeepney way back to my home. Oh God, I do miss that man but I know were not meant to be....
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
i think it is normal that you cannot forget your ex because it has been only 2 months that you broke up. even for me, i had broke up with my ex for about 2 years and i still think about him sometimes. what i do is that i make myself busy with work and making money and also i try to go out with friends and be with my family. there are many things to get busy for and so i cant afford to waste time just thinking of the exbf who broke my heart.
