falling in love with a married man
By pretiNAS
@pretiNAS (66)
Philippines
August 4, 2011 10:20am CST
What if you fall in love with a married man? you find him to be the best guy on earth. you admire how he loves and cares for his family and you always feel happiness and love when you're with that guy, fortunately he also feels the same way. What if he asks you to go with him, tells you that he will leave his family just for you? what will you do? will you accept that offer or not?
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3 responses
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
Love is blind and lovers can not see so they say. Maybe for a while I could be blind when it comes to love but I am thankful that I have never been blind when it comes to what is right and what is wrong. Yes I can fall in love with a married man but certainly I will never pursue that love. I would kill that love in my heart as soon as possible because I fear God. I know God would not like me falling for a married man so why would I still do? I love God above all things so I can always forget my love for anyone if it violates God's command.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
hi pretinas,
they say love conquers all but in this situation
I would suggest not to go for it just think about the family
Maybe it was just an admiration
Think of it he can leave his wife whom he shared his life with just for a woman
So there is possibility he can also leave that person if he found someone new
happy mylotting
@goggles213 (735)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Love is a good thing, in fact, you can't help your feelings from falling for someone but if you have to sacrifice someone elses happiness for your own, then I think that would be selfish.
The man should know that he has his family already, a family to protect and a family to treasure. He also should not have given the girl the burden to make a difficult decision, its bad enough that she already has feelings for him, it's even worse that the guy is exploiting this feeling for an attempt on his own selfishness.
No matter how I look at it, no matter how good the married guy seems to be, if a married guy asks a girl if he wants to go with him in exchange for leaving his family then this is a selfish act and the girl should just walk away before becoming a victim of the married man's selfish desires. There are a lot of single guys out there who's better than this married man, what the girl needs to do is to wait for the right guy who's not married.