You are Fat! You Shouldn't be eating that! ( a rant)

I love to eat and I hope I am not getting to 200lbs someday. It might be when I am pregnant or when I have a lot of money and I am kinda worried about that. I live a sedentary lives. I want to change it. I hope people won't calling me names like fat pig. It would be annoying and embarrasing to do that. Freedom to do what I want is what I need.

No, I don't think that's right for anyone to do. I am overweight myself and would be really humiliated by someone telling me something like that. I already know that I shouldn't be eating some of the things I do, but it's hard to stop eating them when you're used to it. Thankfully no one has ever done this to me, but I still worry.

People should learn to mind their own business...

I don't think anybody has the right to say that to anybody. Even if it were true, saying it to someone's face wouldn't be helping. Like you said, it may just make the person eat whatever that is, just to spite the other person. Now being fat could be caused by a lot of reasons. It could be some health or emotional issues that they are going through. Instead of saying something hurtful like that, people should understand what they are going through and help in another way.

i also think it will not be courteous to tell someone that. Even my husband is a bit more than normal weight but i cam't tell him he is fat. I can't tell him not to eat something too. i can't tell not becauase i am scared that he might get mad, but bcoz it will break my heart seeing him lose his confidence. It breaks my heart even to put him on a diet. I love to cook for him his fave food, and it wont really matter if he gets fat. If someone tell a person not to eat something, it depends also on how it is saod. Maybe that person said that because they care. Itmmay be their way of caring for that person. But on my part i cant tell someone what they should do.

This is certainly wrong, to tell somebody(anyone who is fat or not)not to eat something,specially to a strange person.How can you say such thing to a stranger?It`s totally his decision what to eat what not to eat.

I think that would be way out of line and I would probably punch someone in the snout if they said that to me...I have had people say...Are you going to eat all that? I reply...well you are eating all of that!!!

people like that have a fat mouth. i would just keep my mouth shut unless it was a family member who i was worried about.

No I don't think that's a very smart thing for me to do. I'm not a fighter and I'm a little on the small side so I imagine this big person might knock me out. I do know someone personally who does that and they themselves are over weight. I want to say "Umm have you looked in a mirror buddy?" Big people gotta eat too, so I don't know what someone wants from them making those kind of comments.

I can't believe there are people out there as arrogant and rude and opinionated and health crazed that would actually do this to someone. I mean, HOW DARE THEY? I generally eat pretty healthy - but on days like last night (I bought fried cheese curds at this restaurant me and my friends went to.. THEY WERE DELICIOUS!) if the waitress said, "Have you looked in the mirror lately? Maybe you should get a salad instead" when I ordered them I would be so taken aback. How dare someone judge another person by their size and try to tell them what to eat, how to live? Sure, it's in that person's best interest if they eat healthy, but no one (and I mean no one) can or should be able to tell you how to live or how to eat.

Who are you 'ranting' about? I am sure it has nothing to do with you but must have overheard someone saying that to someone else I doubt if today's generation would spend their precious hours, or minutes or seconds to give their opinion. Who is this lucky person in whom others would be interested in! Honestly sara, my experience tells me people are too much into themselves that they will not bend backwards and tell someone that they are fat or whatever else.

Hi sweetie. I won't tel that person to f$ck off. I will surely hit him/her extremely hard. No one have the right to say things like that to others. It's rude and it just show that whomever say things like that, don't have any freaking manners at all. I don't think anyone will have the guts to say something like that to me though.

It is not right to tell that to a fat person, much more when he is a stranger. It's is really rude and demeaning thing to say. However, when you are truly close to that fat person, you don't have to repeat the fact that he is fat, though you can jokingly say, that he shouldn't be eating that!

No, I don't think anyone has the right to tell a complete stranger what they should be doing. Everyone has the right to their own opinion, but keep it to yourself. I'm sure somebody that's overweight knows that they shouldn't be eating something that's unhealthy, but ultimately it's their choice with what they do with their life and no one can or should stop them. Also, we have no idea what circumstances this person is under. Maybe they had a stressful day or maybe they've gone a certain amount of time without eating the unhealthy food. It's really none of our business and we shouldn't automatically assume that the "fat person eats the wrong things so they can get fatter". You have no idea what that person's life is like, and unless they talk about it with you and directly ask for your opinion, you should just keep your mouth shut and your opinions to yourself.

As a stranger, it is very impolite to tell somebody not to eat anything since he/she is fat. It is other's business. Here usually people will ask people to eat more as it stands for friendly treatment. It will be so weird to ask others not to eat. I love China

Actually I love seeing some fat people, but that's not important though, when I look into the person, I first look inside--- the attitude or the people is the most important than being fat or thin. And I hate people trying to dictate you the right thing to do specially in the wrong tone of voice. We have freedom. it is always our choice...

I never like to pass comments on anybody, whether they are fat or thin, short or tall etc. Some people take our comments sportingly and some get upset which leads to bad blood.You never know how a person may react,therefore it is best to keep ones counsel to oneself.Nobody likes to be preached and commented on.The best thing is to keep ones mouth shut.Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.

From this rant I deduce that you're fat and someone has told you that you're eating too much, isn't it? Well, obesity is a very spread problem and is a risk for health, but even so nowadays is a big taboo to mention it to someone. Ironically, fat people are always telling thin people that they should eat when they have no idea about the eating habits of that person. I wonder why is it considered right, when it's as offensive.

Hi. I think it should be the other way around. If one is skinny, then it is better to say to her "You shouldn't be eating that." Lol.

I think these words will be hurted someone's heart,hurted someone's self-esteem.Once I was fat,and my classmates once called me Fat Guy.Oh,I feel very sad...very sad..!!! I know maybe she is just kidding with me.But my self-esteem is hurted.Then I started lose weight.And I success. Maybe you are a little negative,you can change their words into your motivity.