"invisible teenage girl" LEAVING the NEST

August 4, 2011 11:17pm CST
well... this is my firs discussion one of many i hope so im at the point.. where its time to take the next phase in life COLLEGE ..and everyone is really excited for it EVERYONE... but me :( why would i be excited for more school ... i feel as if im being kicked out ... or like im not ready .. why does it all happen at once ? like i feel like i have been so rushed .. and i dont even know what i want to do ? i hate school ... and i realy would rather not go but apparently .. its time for me to leave the nest even if my wings dont work
2 responses
5 Aug 11
i think you need to tell your parents that you are not ready for school yet, maybe they can just let you rest first for even 1 sem, because studying really is tiring sometimes. well goodluck:)
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5 Aug 11
Have you seriously sat and talked to your family about this? I mean if you are not ready and are not interested in college for now at least try and let them understand. When you are doing something that you are not ready for it could cause a major burnout on you which could cause problems in general. Maybe talking with the family you can all reach a compromise to work together for common ground. I know sometimes guardians may seem like they don't really care for you, but if you try and reach out with the honesty and be tactfully blunt, it just might help ya. Either way I hope you relax and come to an answer for yourself.