Is marriage necessary for a gilr/lady
@anubratimitra (27)
India
August 5, 2011 1:19am CST
When a gilr grows up touches the age of marriage from that time onwards all tha family members and sorroundigs starts talking about her marriage.They always say that "you need some one to take care of you". I have a humble question to all of you that why girls require some one to take care of them? can't they be self sufficient?
Moreover when she gets married she has to take care of other.There are very few incidents where they are pampered in their in-law's house.Then why should they?
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6 responses
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
6 Aug 11
In the country I come from that idea almost doesn't exist anymore, as it's a very old fashioned and sexist way of thinking. However, in the country where I live now there are still many people who seem to be still living in the past, where women had to stand a lot of opression and stupid sexist rules.
A woman can take care of herself perfectly, and if she has a partner, that doesn't mean she has to leave everything to the other person and just turn into a housewife. Nowadays, we're supposed to help each other 
@anubratimitra (27)
• India
8 Aug 11
absolutely correct dear.We are enought to take care of ourselves.In many of the cases after marriage a girl turns to a house wife and loses her identity and self respect.If we can get married to such a person where both of us can maintain our identities and selfrespects then it's ok but otherwise we should not compromise our everything to be Mrs. Something.
@Rakeshsingh007 (2)
• India
5 Aug 11
yes my friend it is necessary for a girl to be Married at a single stage.Because Marriage is not just a meeting to some one who cares for her, it provides a platform to a girl or a boy to share his/her ideas with his co-partner , it is a beginning of new life:)
@anubratimitra (27)
• India
8 Aug 11
is it truly beginning of a new life or end of your identity and wisdome?Can you draw it graphically that how much the girl is cared after marriage and how much she has to care for others?Can she ever ask her husband or mothaer in-law thae my leg is paining can u plz massage it. No..never but Her husban and in-laws are authorized to give her the same order.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
It is necessary for a woman and for anyone even a man to marry actually. It is not good for anyone to stay single. We need to start a family. Nevertheless, there are those who can live happily in their singlehood. But in most cases it is better to have a spouse because two is better than one. Now about the problems that go with marriage, those are part of life and one has to be just wise enough to handle the problems.
@tears08 (161)
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5 Aug 11
well mostly, when a woman turned maybe like 25 people start to ask, when would she get married...
maybe when they say someone to take care of you maybe it means someone who would help you financially.. maybe..just an opinion
now if marriage is necessary, that is all up to the decision of the woman if she wants to get married.. i'd say it is something not totally necessary but at it is a start of having a family,..like having your own children.. when you grow up, they will be the one to take care of you
@anubratimitra (27)
• India
9 Aug 11
may b u r right but let me tell u something that none takes care of you it's your luck that who takes care of you.
@lbygyh970855 (237)
• China
5 Aug 11
Of course, merriage is necessary for a girl. Women are physically weaker than men. So it is our job to take care of our wife. There are many things that women cann't do. And there are too many things for them to be scared when they are alone at home. So they really need men's protection or a feeling of being protected.
@anubratimitra (27)
• India
8 Aug 11
I am sorry.I can not support you.If u r talking about some laborious jobs then you can easily outsource it.If women were physically weak then god would have not given them the duty of giving birth to a child.getting scared is a mental problem that everyone has to overcome by his/her own.I have seen many boys scared of cockroach so?why girls are weak?
