What is the limit of forgiveness? Exist?

@didi13 (2926)
Romania
August 5, 2011 6:59am CST
The ability to forgive is worn, it is consumed? What is the limit of forgiveness? Exist?
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
5 Aug 11
There is forgiveness. as there is an error for each error is forgiveness. I think everyone should learn to forgive. is sometimes such mistakes are tolerated and difficult to think that we can not forgive but also to be put in place for these people. so I'm for forgiveness. nice day!
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@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
5 Aug 11
The ability to forgive wear but never ends. Not only has no limit but has no "quantity." Forgiveness is one of them most valuable human elements. ... Without forgiveness would be no friendship? But love? In some cases, several such relationships are characterized by forgiveness and relies on it! forgiveness is also something purely ... But all we do? it exists in all of us just need to know to use it after a "find". It's not hidden. There is no invisible, it's surface than we think but we have found. Wear only one way: that you can forgive 100 times a day, but over time forgive less, but still forgive. It's infinite! Is everywhere, just to realize. Thanks for response.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
9 Aug 11
The ability to forgive comes from within a person. It is not set in stone. The limit of forgiveness also comes from the person. Remember, everyone is different, some forgive easily and others do not. Also there are people that do not forgive. Again, the question is questionable here. It does not make much sense, so I am answering it as I understand it.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
12 Aug 11
I think that in certain circumstances, not forgiving someone is totally acceptable. If, for instance, someone was to harm your child for not good reason, they should, in my book anyway, never be forgiven for that. That does not make one weak or fearful. That makes them human. We are not machines and we all have feelings. But in fact there are those that are just pure evil and should not ever be forgiven. Going further, they should not be able to be on the same planet we we are. At least for now, the world is a cruel place and will not change in our lifetime. I am one that never ran with the popular crowd. I seem things differently then others. If you follow, then you are weak, but to think on your own makes you a smart and wise individual. I do believe that there are instances where a person can honestly say I cannot forgive.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
9 Aug 11
Among the qualities absolutely necessary for a man to pass a certain stage of its evolution is the ability to forgive. There is a limit beyond which we can not go unless we have great power to forgive. The ability to forgive to be learned and done wisely. We must not exaggerate in any respect. To forgive insults, but be careful not to fall into the other extreme. To be benevolent but firm, if we are right. Do not encourage evil or selfishness. We can forgive in our hearts those who do evil for fun and to correct a strong external action and wise. The power to forgive should not know boundaries, you can not say that something can be forgiven, and nothing is unforgivable. Inability to forgive is ego and fear of weakness, or sensory perception predominantly materialistic life. When someone says he can not forgive, in fact, he says he does not wants to forgive! Thanks for response.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
6 Aug 11
To forgive should be something of importance. Not just to exist. It means being able to say "I'm Sorry" or have the other person say this, and to actually believe you and want to still Love and accept you for who you are. Personally this is something of importance to feel like we belong and can get along no matter who the person might be.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
7 Aug 11
Yes, you can offer your forgiveness to everyone, if you care for that person. As long as there is love and faith you can forgive a mistake even to the point you thought it was inexcusable.Capacity for forgiveness is infinite. Thanks for response.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
5 Aug 11
I disagree. I think that all can be forgiven, if we allow ourselves to let go. However, this is not to say that we should keep certain people in our lives who are not treating us well. For this, I do not believe that there is any set limit; we all have the power to choose who we want to keep in our lives. It is up to us and we should not feel guilty for our decision no matter what, though we can always change our mind and let them back in if the other will allow us back into theirs.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
7 Aug 11
You clearly did not understand what I have written. You are arguing with me, yet we are agreeing.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
7 Aug 11
No, forgiveness has no limits, because the forgiveness prove you love. Only through forgiveness can go on forever ... if we punish for what I did once get stuck in time. To forgive means to live, to forgive is more than to forgive those around you, is to understand that we are not guilty of infirmities of others as we judge those who instead can do everything to change. .. to forgive is to let you past what the past means to reconcile the suffering experienced, and 'exceeds' and you leave and where it is. To close the door to open a new one, let his life continue to forgive means `you overcome all limits. to forgive others and forgive yourself means you give up your anchor in place, to be free. Only then we can finally move forward, to be free to live. Thanks for response.
• Canada
5 Aug 11
Always always forgive. If you do not, it only hurts you (in many ways) and does not hurt the person who did the wrong to you. They may care if you forgive them or not, or they may not care. But you should always care if you forgive as it is a positive action towards healing. Do it the minute it happens. Don't stew in non-forgiving. That only festers in you and in the end you will be hurt by that.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
7 Aug 11
If you love, you can forgive whatever whenever needed. See that those whom we love, and forgive them more easily? Love you up to a higher level of understanding, it gives you the power you need to forgive. God tells us we need to forgive someone even if we would be wrong 70 times by 7. This is symbolic, to understand how much to forgive. Thanks for response.
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
It is the way to dissolve some link and get free however there are some cases that's redundantly happening to where your patience is being abuse, forgiveness, it does consumed.If you don't feel the sincerity and the trust is already lost just never mind they are not deserving for the forgiveness.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
7 Aug 11
To forgive is something human, even the "evil" deeds are forgiven or should be forgiven, so teach Christianity, but here up to the overlook everything and all I think is a step meant. If you know that you forgive easily, then you are also "bake" on the site over and over again other things that are a close, friend, lover, etc.. Minimum requirement is needed to be able to impose that one next to you, strive to act as well, to not get hurt, upset, or "stepping" up. Thanks for response.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
5 Aug 11
I do not believe that it is fair to anyone to put a limit on forgiveness. that is one way of saying you can only give and receive forgiveness up to one point. forgiveness has to come from the heart. The heart is something that should always be limitless so forgiveness can have meaning.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
5 Aug 11
Forgiveness is a human weakness exploited by those who are wrong ... On the other hand, is something that defines us, without which we can not live without that can not exist as a species, without which we can not evolve. We all make mistakes and need forgiveness constantly, which is the result of thousands of years of thought, along our evolutionary history. I did not know each other we still, totally, emotionally true potential, but we are on the right way. We have much to feel ... Thanks for response.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
5 Aug 11
I think that with each time a repeat mistake has happened, we tend to get closer to the limit of forgiveness. Forgiving someone for making a mistake once or twice, yeah that is something that we just have to do to have peace of mind. Often times it does take a couple of times for people to truly learn their lesson. It is part of the growing process of life, really nothing more to say about that. However there are many times where the level of forgiveness that we have does in fact get worn down in a rapid, rapid manner. In fact there comes a point where we past forgiveness and we just are gullible a lot of the time. There are many times where a mistake is going to be done one time too many and that is really the sad truth of the situation. We all have our limits for what should be forgiven and how many mistakes can be made before our forgiveness has been reached.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
5 Aug 11
Just. Forgiveness does not come alone. Each sense is pushed by another. Indeed, love makes you strong, but you can and destroy. This is influenced by the naivety and fear. Naive, when you do not realize that there can not be hurt by both. Become a robot full of feelings that rust. Fear, because you do not want to lose you, decide to forgive, but to be hurt even more. Forgiveness is limitless for each person. But should not use it too often in one person. Forgiveness should be followed by wisdom and logical thinking, but is followed by feelings not so idealistic that help us, because just when we could touch a cloud finger feel that we collapsed in the 4th layer in ground. Thanks for response.
• South Korea
5 Aug 11
I dont think there is a limit.. well maybe it depends on you because we cannot just forgive somebody if it is not true to our heart... no one can answer this question without asking their self first..
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
5 Aug 11
Can be consumed, but not necessarily terminal. I do not know that the limit of forgiveness, simply because, for now, I am not "tired" to forgive. Now, depends on the facts plead forgiveness. I think forgiveness should be up when the action begins to repeat. Thanks for response.
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
There is no limit for forgiveness. Though it's really hard to forgive especially if the one who have hurt us is someone very dear to us, but we still need to forgive. Without forgiveness, constant worry will never leave our mind. Our hearts are heavy and we can't think straight. With forgiveness, we feel this peace of mind and a happy heart. Everytime we feel that we can't forgive anymore because it is too much, just think of Jesus. He had showed us the best example of forgiveness. We are humans. We get hurt. But there is someone there who will judge us in the appropriate time. Just forgive and forgive. The Lord sees everything. Your efforts to forgive are never in vain. Someday you will reap the rewards for your actions.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
5 Aug 11
Forgiveness is not consumed, but the limits of forgiveness, are each of us. Some may forget things very serious, others can not forgive things trivial. Still matter and who is the person "to forgive" and how much we love. Thanks for response.