Falling in love

He's not for you, its his loss not yours. Better keep that in mind. Enjoy what you currently have and be happy about it, a better guy will come along and he will sweep you off your feet and love you like there's no tommorrow.

if he make a wrong?? i dont think so....i think you must forget him...

veedee13, I know that you are hurting and I am sorry for what had happened to you. I hope that you would be able to evolve, find a way out of your misery and move on. However, I hope you will be not take any offense on what I have to say here. For a start, I believe this relationship was wrong to have ever started. I do not know what you were thinking when you entered the relationship warily that he is your friend's boyfriend and that the relationship between them was far from over. I am a firm believer of having a good foundation in a relationship and to be clear with our responsibilities and people around. Without this a relationship will always be weak and tumultuous - crumbling at the first wave of any storm. The least he should have done was to have come clean with your friend before beginning with you, so that you do not need to make that friendship sacrifice. Liken to the way, he had with your friend and going into a relationship with you, he has done it again with you - leaving without a word. I hope it would tell you volumes about his integrity and his sense of responsibility. As the saying goes "a leopard does not change its spots", so I hope you will be careful the next time. About recovery, I just want to add that there will never be any recovery until you are able to accept the facts that the relationship is over. People use to say that time would heal but it never will until one is able to accept the facts which is responsible for the initiation of the needed evolve. I hope that you will stop brooding or engage in any self blame game, there is never a true wrong in a relationship and your partner is equally responsible for how things are today. Please remember that you deserve the very best in life and this relationship will not be your last. I am sure you will meet someone better but you will need to convince yourself to move on. Take care and have a nice day.